SRS help me out

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  1. cosmocrat

    cosmocrat New Member

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    ive had an issue with not being able to control the cash i've spent on my boyfriend lately. I know he hates it... especially when i put 20s in his pocket for dinner or movies..etc. He accepts it bitterly since he lost his job a few weeks ago.. and we're getting ready to go back to school anyway. Besides the fact that i'm growing broke.. i'm pretty sure it's shoots his confidence down a bit. It's not so easy to "just stop"- since we did all these things when we could take turns paying. Any advice?:rolleyes:
     
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    this really isn't a vag issue, perse... gonna move to the asylum :)
     
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    oops.. sorry. thought it would be since its a relationship issue:dunno:
     
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    c'mon
     
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    well for starters, do the things less... i.e. movies/dinner less times, or do them at home (cheapers) until he gets another job
    or continue to spend your money.
    or just do it the same as when it would be your turn!!!
     
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    I would read into the debt solution sticky , you know no relationship is worth financial bankrupcy , your not responsible for his financial situation its nice you help him out; but not to the extend that you damage yourself by throwing it all away:
     

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