Help Me Last Longer...

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  1. p00f

    p00f New Member

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    Hey everyone, I'm pretty new to the site and this is my first post in this forum(hell i think it's only my second post period).

    When I make love to my Fiance it never lasts very long. It doesn't take her long for her to reach orgasm and it DEFINENTLY doesn't take me long. Most of the time we'll start out with her on top and she rides me until she orgasms. Then we'll keep going a lil with her on top or just switch up and get in Missionary. It doesn't take me long after that.

    She doesn't mind, but sometimes I'll come before she climaxes, this upsets me. lol I like to have my girl screaming for the orgasm, but if I come before she does I'm done. It's like I can't go anymore and most of the time I lose erection afterwards.

    Is there anything I can do to keep myself from coming to soon?? I would love to (and have a couple times before) make long lasting love with my fiance. An hour or two of sex with her would be awesome! We've done it a couple times before, but here lately and most of the time it's a 15-20 minute session.

    I want to get a cock ring (I've heard that can prolong orgasm a bit?), and try that out. I really think she would like the "enlarging" effect also :naughty:

    Anything else out there I can do, or use to prolong orgasm and possibly give my loved one Multiple Orgasms by having 1-2 hour long sex?

    Any helpful info is appreciated!! I just want to spice up our sex life a bit :bigthumb:
     
  2. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

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    Just "practice" before you go at it with her. That should give you another 5-10 minutes of stamina. ;)

    Remember the movie "There's something about Mary." That is what I am talking about!
     
  3. p00f

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    Catching my penis in my zipper doesnt sound fun :p

    Can anyone lend me some advise??
     
  4. BedBunny

    BedBunny Guest

    masturbate earlier on in the day
     
  5. Bassheadjazz03

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    :werd:.......or, have her do her thing on you till you shoot. Then in your dormate period, that when u return the favor. Eat her out, or simply play with her and get her really hot. And by the time your back in action, she's yelling in toungues.
     
  6. SLKWrx

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    Funny, I'm quite a bit like you. On the bottom I can go for a while, put me on top.. and thats the end of that. Since she is your fiance, and you can work with her, you might wanna try this method.

    Get on top, and start like normal. Just before you feel yourself ready to cum, stop, pull out, and just breathe.. relax, you'll feel the tightening sensation subside a bit.. then start again.. its pretty frustrating for her because a lot of the time she'll be close and you'll have to stop, but it helps in 2 ways. One, it teaches you to control your body a bit more, and two, your orgasm after all the starting and stopping is wild.

    The other way I have gotten around it is when you feel yourself getting close, change to a new position. Usually you have to stop for a few seconds.. believe me, it does wonders.

    -- Steve
     
  7. p00f

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    I've done this before and it has worked, but sucks when your all in the moment and just STOP! lol
    Would a cock ring help me here?? Like I said I want to get a lil more "freaky" but if I can't control myself how do I make it work??

    She's away at school right now, but I am going to see her in a couple weeks. I'd like to make here think "WOW" ya know?? Any ideas?
     
  8. SLKWrx

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    got me.. sorry man, tried the ring once, focused too much on having it there than on the girl.. lost the pole. I was lucky enough to have a girl for a while that when we didn't see each other for an extended period of time, she thought it was cute that I popped early. Go figure
     
  9. p00f

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    lol well like I said she doesn't mind, especially since she gets off quick too...But I'd rather have a long love making session!! No one can give me some advice?
     
  10. hotbabe

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    am i the only one who fails to see the wonder of hour long sex sessions??? i mean seriously, i'm a busy girl. i can understand an hour total (beg to end), but i am worn out at the end of that. and i think i would get bored going for longer than that...
     
  11. Time to return the advice :) If you get bored after a while ... he's doing something wrong! I've never been asked to get on with it. Then again ... I've been cheated on a few times so ....

    ... I'll assume that's due to me choosing the wrong women since they've always screamed for me and let me do what ever the hell I want so long as I get them off over and over, which I do! :)
     
  12. hotbabe

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    i think thats the prob. i have never had multiple orgasms...:( am i the only one??? i just don't think its possible with me-its not him. he is awesome. i just get really sensitive down there after i come and it takes too long to recover.
     
  13. PocoDiablo

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    My GF has multiples, it's crazy. And she's always horny. We'll easily have 1-2 hour sessions.

    Try "Foreplay" lube. It's good stuff. :)
     
  14. p00f

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    FUCKING THREAD JACKERS!!! lol

    But seriously...I guess I'll just try out a cock ring and see how she likes that for one...hopefully it'll allow me to have more control over myself coming too.
     
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    Honestly, after whacking it earlier that day, focus on all the hot porn u've you've seen. Picture that fine ass you remember so well from page. xx and just keep going. Its all good
     
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    WTF?! Why would I want to imagine a porn star when I am making love to my Fiance?!?! You Pathetic fuck!
     
  17. Bassheadjazz03

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    :wtf:
    Its all good....Until you fuck up and say something wrong, like say, that pronstar's name....
     
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    :slap: pathetic
     
  19. imori

    imori Phasma En Machina

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    I dont really have this problem, its really quite the opposite, honestly. my gf is almost always on top and I almost never orgasm while she is like that. I would try something else, but we also have a huge size difference (about a foot) so its just awkward in missionary, or virtually any other position where I have more leverage than she.
     
  20. p00f

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    Heh, I'm about a foot taller than my Fiance too, lol but I don't find it awkard (and niether does she) to double her up with her legs on my shoulders and pund away :bigthumb: But that's when I blow :slap: Eh, I'll figure something out Get to go see her the week from today :naughty: :cool:
     
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    Master your PC muscle, breathing and self awareness... That is the ONLY and the BEST way to become a sexual machine ;)
     
  22. Luciano

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    There is a difference between "making love for hours on end" and ACTUALLY humping for a fucking hour!! Thats just hard on both of you. THere is so much playtime before, during, and after that also constitute lovemaking. Dude, cut yourself some slack, cause 20-25 mins of sex is still alot in anyones book.......but it doesnt have to stop there is all im saying.
     
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    15-20 mins of pure sex is a long time :) It's good...
     
  24. p00f

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    please don't mind my stupidity, but what exactly is the "PC Muscle"?? lol and how do i "master" it?
     
  25. imori

    imori Phasma En Machina

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    Ive tried that possition, but its too uncomfortable for her. I dont think shes that flexable. Oh well.
     

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