my husband of three years (we've been together for four and have a son) and I had an "altercation" about six months back. it did turn violent, no one in particular to blame, but i still hold serious anger issues about it. I love him and know that hes not the type of person who would normally turn violent. Mind you its no excuse but there was a massive amount of alcohol involved. I AM NOT a violent person...I can understand making a mistake...we are all only human after all. I guess what i'm asking is if any kind of therapy for myself would help to resolve the issue...he has been doing everything he's been ordered to do by the court and really trying to make some serious changes in his life...i truly believe he is sorry and it won't happen again..he hasn't had a drop to drink since. How do i get past this for the sake of our kids and keep our family together? Please don't make fun of this i am running out of places to go to with this.