I am looking for some insight to my situation here. I'm figuring this is the right place for it so I'll give it a shot my problem comes after the first date I have no problem meeting attractive women and exchanging phone numbers. What seems to be the issue is the 2nd date, which is troubling to get. I don't knwo what it is and I've even sat down with some of my female friends to see what they think and they have said that I might be intimidating these girls but they said that I come off as confident and know what I want...along with being well dressed and attractive, they said that it can be intimidating...one on one I'm completely thinkign the opposite at this point, there has to be something that is driving them away. I mean I call for a 2nd date a day later or two depending on our first date, I tell them I had a good time (assuming they did too) and find out if they wanna go out another weekend...I usually get the Vmail and they never call back. I used to think "fine, whatever" btu now its annoying me. I tried to anaylize what I'm doign on these dates, but nothing out of the ordinary to make them think I"m weird or somethign. I make them laugh, I compliment them, but not too much were its geeky...I'll say "you look dapper" or something like that to make them laugh...and I'll make them feel comfortable most importantly.... I get all the signs of a good date too, the touchin of the arm, the chemistry, the smiles and the looks, and teh conversation is usually great....but WTF!!! They don't call back anything I can be overlooking????