help couldnt cum

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  1. kyle1616

    kyle1616 New Member

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    well i had sex for my first time but i could not cum.

    i got her off 4 times and for some reason it wasn't happening for me, im not sure what was wrong my penis just felt completely numb.

    i didn't feel nervous but im guessing that was the problem, it kind of made it worse because my parents were home and we were being really loud.

    im guessing ill get over this problem after we have sex a few more times.


    has this happened to anyone else?
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    you just weren't into it as much because you aren't used to it.
    focus on how good it feels, etc.
     
  3. AudixD6

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    Are you sure your straight?
     
  4. MTech

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    +1 maybe it's time to come out?

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  5. Buttons

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    Maybe you two dumbass 07s should go back to the initiation forum?
     
  6. The Scientist

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    man, you were probably just nervous. lots of guys don't cum their first time, don't sweat it. you were probably trying to focus on too many different things at once: it being your first time, trying to please her, and not get caught by your parents. just remember to ease up, take your time and enjoy what feels good.
     
  7. Abomb

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    i bet she faked her orgasms if its your first time
     
  8. Twista

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    i cummed in a half of a pump. Not even 1 second when i was a virgin :rofl:
     
  9. Ford4Life

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    That is usually the way it works the first time, you are either a 2 second superstar or you don't bust at all.
     
  10. CaiWooBlue

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    I disagree with this. I went through a "virgin slaying" phase and they didn't all suck just cause it was their first time.
     
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    you kinda gotta learn how to get used to the sensations of sex if you've been masturbating for a while :/ its different
     
  12. HuskiRuski

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    werd. it might not feel quite as good as jacking off at first.

    but after a few times, you're gonna want to do it all the time.

    i couldn't cum the first 3-4 times i did it, and actually lost my erection the first 2 times. but since, i haven't had any of those problems. you'll be the same way.
     
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    owned by mod
     
  14. Tetragrammaton

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    i didn't bust my first time either, its nothing to worry about



    its a nice confidence booster lol
     
  15. jazzmoney

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    That's your problem: Having sex at home with your parents is going to stop yourself from feeling free to enjoy sex.

    Try having sex somewhere else other than your parent's home or your car... Some where you can relax.
     
  16. TheStickman

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    Same thing happened to me. Don't worry, your second time sill be better. Go rent a hotel room or something next time.
     
  17. AudixD6

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    I should kick your ass for referring to "07" as if it makes you some sort of god... i'm sorry you have not life other than Off topic...:fawk:

    I guess next your going to tell me i'm no good cause i don't have an AV too right???
     
  18. HuskiRuski

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    ethug.txt
     
  19. DubOverdose

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    Ya, so my first time I had no problems, but I realized it didn't take me long (5-10 minutes)...so I got some of those condoms that are supposed to make you last longer...and you can't feel a thing with them which has kept me from blowin' my load. Worst. Feeling. Ever. I have sympathy for you man.
     
  20. eu4ia

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    i didnt hit climax until like my 6th or so time having sex. had to figure out what positions and tempo could get me off and have it be with someone i liked alot
     
  21. Marix

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    It's normal - most people either cum instantly or not at all

    But I think it's fairly safe to say that she didn't cum 4 times, lol
     
  22. Nucleartiger

    Nucleartiger Clemson makes my nipples hard

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    I also didn't cum the first few times I ever had sex. My gf loved it and was nice enough to talk about it to a friend of hers. My stock in High school went up pretty good because of it. haha
     
  23. eskarinna

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    ughh thats not alwaysthe case. One of my ex's made me gush in under 2 min from penetrating me and it was his first time. Henevereven kissed anyone up untill me. In the same times some of my ex's have never gotten me to do that so i know i am not an easy case to get to do that. He was rather gifted thoughand touch me places where no member has reached b4. :bowdown:
     
  24. Sirian

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    i dont know what would be worse on your first time, not cumming at all or cumming in .2 seconds like i did. very embarassing, especially if you havent told the girl you are with that you were a virign. :o
     
  25. HuskiRuski

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    it's way better to not come at all than to come in .2 seconds.

    coming in 2 seconds means the girl gets nothing out of it and it's just plain embarrassing to be a 2 pump chump.

    if you don't come at all, you can just say you were nervous or something and i'm sure she'll understand, especially if she knows that you're into her. also, if you're wearing a condom, you can always just fake it after 20 minutes or so, and she might never know.
     

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