head is there, but not the heart

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  1. UofIidiot

    UofIidiot New Member

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    How can I go about telling my current girlfriend that my head is in the relationship, but my heart isnt? I know I could just say that, but it's hard to explain the whole situation.

    Yes, it sounds like a pussy ass question, but I really have no idea how to even bring it up to her.

    Any suggestions would help.

    Thanks
     
  2. hi2u2

    hi2u2 New Member

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    you really shouldnt do something your heart isnt in either.....it gets messy later on.
     
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    i know how that is.
     
  4. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    why cant you just sit her down and tell her how you feel?

    how come its so hard to talk to your gf?? we're not talking about you getting a divorce here or anything.

    COMMUNICATION IS VITAL!
     
  5. Miss Red

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    I think that's how my bf feels. You should really sit down and talk to her.
     
  6. Indigo

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    I have the same problem.

    I've been with my gf for 4 years, and lately I just feel like I need a change. I feel like I'm the worst guy in the world, which I probably am, but I can't help the way I feel.

    The worst part is going to be telling her, plus the fact that her family have fully taken me in and treat me as one of their own.

    I'm hoping my feelings change back to the way they were, but I know what you mean.
     
  7. <Mark>

    <Mark> A flute without holes, is not a flute. A donut wit

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    Im the same way right now. I like her because she is a great person, we get along very well and she treats me wonderfully...but most of the time I just don't feel that "spark" that I felt with my last gf.
     
  8. Amanda Renee

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    the way i see it is .. if you feel like you cant live your life without that certain person your with, you should be with them and it would probably work out. if not.. dont.. there are plenty of people out there...

    if you dont feel the spark ... dont waste your time..
     

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