*sigh* Just got finished, almost, not quite yet..With over two hours of back breaking work..After I got home from my job. Sat down, & realized how little my husband was involved with our life together. We have no mutual friends. Even though my friends kept inviting him out... You would not believe the mess he left here. He was such a slob. He did drop by to pick up the Playstation I bought him... In five years he never contributed not one piece of furniture to our home. I bought everything. He's leaving only with the dresser he came with, & what I'm giving him, plus his junk. He made his own credit worse, even though I taught him how to clean it up. Just kept overdrawing, & blowing his limit. It recently started to affect mine. He admitted he never once picked up a dustrag, or even bothered to wipe down the microwave. He managed to grab up a good sized chunk of my character. After we hooked up, suddenly he was sooo into horror, & sci-fi. It was like he collected my character for use. He was a totally vapid emotional black hole. Sucked alot of my energy up. I'm starting to feel like being seperated from him is one of the smartest moves I've ever made. Tommorow my new boyfriend comes into town, & has already offered his time, & help. Needed to vent... damn, my back hurts. I just put in a sixteen hour day. cliffs: Non contributing, worthless husband, leeched my personality, & left me w/ a huge mess to clean up. Never cleaned anything, & was a video game playing dreamer. New guy coming over tommorow. Equipped with his own stamina, drive, & character.