Having trouble meeting someone? Four simple solutions...

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  1. Timer

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    1) Be confident and playful.
    Why? Because confidence is sexy, but playful confidence, not arrogance. However...

    2) Talk to someone who you are compatible with...
    Why? In the end, looks fade very quickly. Good personality is sexy, too.

    3) Don't go out to hit on someone, go out to have fun!
    Why? It becomes obvious of your intentions. Have fun, and it'll fall in place.

    4) Say hi!
    Why? You're dying, try making the best of your time. Rejected? So what?

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  2. 04JETTA

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    interesting read :cool:
     
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    agreed......but I like it.
     
  4. Nitin

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    Nice. It definitely is all about having fun. Everything else just falls into place then, usually.
     
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    ITT: Secrets of a happy life revealed.
     
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    #4 is my favourite :)
     
  7. Short Bus

    Short Bus Beep beep!

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    The thing with #3 is that it's tricky. You WANT your intentions to be known if you have a romantic interest. But there are more subtle ways to get that across than by using crappy pick-up lines.

    If you're uncomfortable with talking about women, take some excellent I read on another forum and start out chatting it up with any and all women, particularly ones you don't find attractive. Librarians, cashiers, old, unattractive, retirees... any and all. Eventually you'll be far more comfortable with the simple act of talking to a woman, and talking to attractive ones will be far more automatic.
     
  8. Yail Bloor

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    your intention will be clear when you invite her on a date
     
  9. Short Bus

    Short Bus Beep beep!

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    It's only stupid for people who've already got a clue. :dunno:

    I think a lot of people get far too caught up in overly complex advice and they forget to boil it down to these basic elements.
     
  10. Yail Bloor

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    keep it simple
     
  11. Short Bus

    Short Bus Beep beep!

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    :werd:

    You can spend hours reading all the crap you can find on the internet... only to later come back to this.
     
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    You can simplify this even further if you just said:

    1. Join clubs, do activities you enjoy or are interested in, or volunteer somewhere. Put yourself in social situations.

    2. Talk and be social. Say what's on your mind.
     
  13. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    simple but highly effective

    I read up on all the bullshit. None of that works.

    This kind of thing does. It ain't rocket science.
     
  14. huntz0r

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    The devil is in the details, and a lot of the "bullshit" is invaluable for clearing up those details.

    But yes, you aren't going to learn or accomplish anything, until you return to these basics and actually get out and do stuff and talk to people.
     
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    :werd:

    everyone just completely over analyzed this...

    Simple is easier and less pressure on yourself. Have fun.
     

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