Having trouble getting off when im with girls

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    I dont know how to come out with this but lately ive been having getting off with girls. It almost seems like I can only get myself off by masturbating. I know its not the girls cause its been they have really good other guys havent had any problems with them. I want to be able to get off when a girl gives me a HJ or BJ also sex. I was wondering if anything I could do to hopefully get off with a girl. I'm not nervous or anythign its just simply I think ive been wacking off to much so im only used to my self and cant get off on the girls work.

    Anybody have any advice?
     
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    relax
     
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    Flamesuit on I know this sounds really gay but its not the thing i really want to bring up with the doc since im only 19 and i dont want to turn to drugs or anything.
     
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    relax.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Stop masturbating.
     
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    Yea I've tried to do it alot less. So far im succeding. But the times when I do i try to go really easy and act like how the girls gives me it and not the way i want to do that gets me the best feeling.
     
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    RELAX.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well cutting WAY down is what is going to help you, simple as that. Now you have to use willpower.
     
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    Okay sounds good.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How often would you say you masturbate on average?
     
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    about once maybe twice a day. usually when i get up and then maybe once at night
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah, too much. Try cutting down to like 3 days a week and see how sex is then. You do also have to really try and just relax when you are having sex, but it's pretty obvious it's the masturbation that is clogging your head :hs:
     
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    In a week we'll see him saying, "Oh god, I didn't last long at all! How do I last longer?" :rofl: Or he'll :wackit: furiously.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    That's a hell of a lot better than him never being able to cum and relying on his hand for the rest of his life though.
     
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    i gotcha sounds good ill try it out
     
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    Holy shit dude twice a day?

    Yeah, like everyone else has said, reduce the frequency. If I'm only seeing my gf on weekends, for example, and I want to make sure I'll be able to last a while, I'll spank it like once on Wednesday and maybe once on Thursday and be good for some marathon sex over the weekend.

    Then again I'm old (27). When I was your age I was living next door to my gf at school (who loved to give head*) and I'd get like 2 blowjobs a day every day for weeks on end :rofl: But sometimes I needed some days off because the endurance just gets built up to the point where you're NOT going to cum.



    *HEY BEER LOOK I MENTIONED BLOWJOBS!!! YOU KNOW THE SEXUAL ACT WITH WHICH I AM OBSESSED??? I'M POINTING IT OUT HERE SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO.
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Stop whacking off son. After 4 days when a chick goes down on you it feels amazingly awesome.

    Now I´m in a situation where I get sex basically when I want it I find I don´t even whack off at all unless it´s on phone sex when I´m away
     

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