Having sex with girls after my ex makes me want my ex back.

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  1. UNvisible

    UNvisible New Member

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    I dont miss a single thing about my ex, other than she fucked like a CHAMP. God we had amazing sex. I guess thats what 3.5 years together will do.

    I had sex with another girl last night............BORING. I fucking HATE it when a girl cant tell me what she needs/wants/feels good/etc etc etc. :ugh:

    Fuck I need to figure something out :hs:
     
  2. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Was sex with your ex ALWAYS that good? From the very first time? You said that's what 3.5 years together will do so I'm assuming you guys worked out a really good rhythm and got to know what the other likes/wants.

    Give new girls some time. And hell, one might actually surprise you with some crazy stuff your ex would never do!
     
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    truth. :hs:
     
  4. UNvisible

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    yes, it was always that good.

    We were having passionate amazing sex after a month. Ofcourse maybe my memory is clouded... We were both in our senior year of highschool... She would come over late at night... we'd go to a park and fuck... all kinds of wonderful shit.

    I think i'm just mad because the girls arent as open as my ex, and I dont know what they like, like I did for my ex.
     
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    /agree
     
  6. Abomb

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    uh.. find a girl who is more freaky in bed which requires dating around
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    The same thing goes that I said in your other thread. You're having this problem because you are fucking girls just to fuck them. Most girls aren't going to tell you right away what they like, or know what you like. That's one of the benefits of a long term relationships-you learn what each other loves in the sack. Maybe stop just fucking girls once and either find one you care about....or fuck one more than once til she learns.
     
  8. Falconer

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    I know how the threadstarter feels. Sex with my last LTR was like 11/10.

    So I worry that my next gf will not be as good.
     
  9. UNvisible

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    I'm impatient. I want wonderful sex again.. now. :big grin:
     
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    You're right I'm fucking girls just to fuck them, because it's just a game to me. I dont KNOW if i can support a relationship mentally/emotionally right now... and I havent found a girl worth trying for yet.. It's only been a short time (~4 months).. But I'm impatient.

    I guess getting girls has never been my problem, finding one I can tolerate has been though. :sad2: I'm not trying to sound like an ass hole or boast, or any of that nonsense... It's just the honest to god truth... it's frustrating i need such an emotional connection to someone to enjoy fucking them. :hs:
     
  11. UNvisible

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    and as weird as this sounds, I havent found a girl who knows how to kiss yet either since my ex.. :ugh:

    One girl I kissed wouldnt stop sucking on my lips :ugh:, another one acts like she's chewing my face. :ugh:.. It's disheartening. :sad2:
     
  12. Abomb

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    you can get that now, step your game up

    and i feel you on how much it sucks when bitches cant kiss :bowdown:
     
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    +1
     
  14. UNvisible

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    my game is top notch son ;)
     
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    youve had sex before?
     
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    Damn. You're crazy bitch, but you fuck so good I'm on top of it.
     
  17. Abomb

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    :bowdown:
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    that's such a useless thing to worry about.

    it is passive. take an active view. set having even better sex than 11/10 as a little personal goal. be enthusiastic
     
  19. Two toys

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    i've been with 6 girls since my last real girlfriend and its been a year, and none of them compare. the sex with her was amazing from the first time we had sex to the last. she has been the girl who i've had the biggest emotional connection to as well which i think spawned from the amazing sex, because personality wise we clashed a lot.

    after that i've had great sex but nothing has even come close yet. I dont doubt it will in time, but for now its just bleh, i get my nut off and i'm over it, i get irritated when the girl wants to hold me, i've changed a lot, gotten a lot colder. hopefully it all goes away soon enough.

    she still tells me i'm the best sex she's ever had when we talk occasionally and that she misses it meh.

    and all that was basically just to let you know there are lots of us in the same boat, we'll find someone else, just give it time.
     
  20. Falconer

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    That's a good mindset to take. I guess I had that as a doubt because I'm naturally pessimistic (read: realistic) by nature.

    IBpositivitychallenge
     
  21. Falconer

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    Yes, I've had a lot of sex. Except it's only been with LTRs so I guess I lose e-street cred for not having ONSs.
     
  22. Abomb

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    one night stands are highly overrated
     
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    :h5::h5:


    I couldnt have said it any better. :hs:
     

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