having sex w/ a virgin girl v.2342343

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  1. FlashhslaF

    FlashhslaF New Member

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    i understand the taking it slow and communication during the whole process, but i do have some rather silly questions i hope someone here can answer in a straight forward manner.

    1. Will i feel some resistance when i go in? How much pressure does it take to break the hymen and how much pressure should I apply?

    2. Can /Should it be broken by fingering her? The reason for this is if she doesn't want full intercourse, maybe i can just break her hymen and have it heal before we have actual intercourse. :dunno:

    3. Is there some numbing cream she can put on it the broken hymen to stop the pain if it gets too much?

    4. Is the hymen located towards the front or the back of the vagina entry?

    thanks
     
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    chances are that she doesn't have an intact hymen if she has ever been fingered or was somewhat active (i.e. played sports)
     
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    she is neither active in sports, nor has she been fingered, but for the sake of my curiosity lets say her hymen is intact. :)
     
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    yea, and how about a serious answer to my questions.. :slap:
     
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    1. Yes. She will probably tell you harder/slower, so no need to over think that part. If shes to shy, just take it slow.

    2. Warm up with fingers and oral. Get some lube. Makes things go easier.
     
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    :bowrofl: I just LOLed so fucking hard right now, thank you.

    To the TS,
    1. Hell yeah you are going to feel resistance. She's a virgin and most likely VERY tight. You need to go as slow as possible and make sure she is comfortable with it.
    2. Yes, you can pop a girl's "cherry" or hymen by fingering her, but chances are it will be broken but actual penetration. Don't be shocked if you don't break it the first time either.
    3. :rofl: Sweet sweet newbs. No. There is nothing besides ibuprofen to get over the pain, which is not going to be that excruciating anyway.
    4. "In virgins, the outer end of the vagina has a thin membrane of skin, like a collar, partially closes the entrance."

    Basically kid, the advice to you is the same to every other kid who has asked what sex is like with a virgin. It's most likely going to be awkward. It will probably hurt her. You might not even finish, etc. etc.

    The best tips for you are have AT LEAST 15 minutes of foreplay. Foreplay=fingering her and especially eating her out. After that you can attempt to put it in but judging on how aroused she is and how nervous it might hurt her therefore you either go back to foreplay on her to try and loosen her up or just realize its going to be a long process.
     
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    TS, He's right dude. It's gonna hurt like hell too.

    You know the basics. Lube, foreplay, communication. Good luck, big time!! :h5:
     
  9. FlashhslaF

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    thanks :)
     
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    Prepare to go slow as hell and have her being in lots of pain. I remember to this day when my SO and I first had sex. Hope you like your dick being strangled, its like trying to fit a sledge hammer through a nail hole :rofl:. Don't worry though, after 2-3 times it gets much better and both people will be able to relax and enjoy.
     
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    lol @ above, it hasn't happened yet.
     
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    Or, to quote lyrics (translated) from a Rammstein song:

    ein Elefant im Nadelöhr

    "An elephant in the eye of a needle" :mamoru:
     
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    LOL that was freaking great.


    GL and prepare for a stage 5 clinger. ;)
     
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    I feel like such a noob never having deflowered a virgin considering my age, but the one thing I do know from way back in the day is a virgin can be fingered all day and not break the hymen as it takes a considerable amount of pressure.
     
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    ballerman230 just a pale blue dot

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    I lost my virginity a couple weeks ago, and the girl, also a virgin, didn't bleed at all, and said it only hurt a little bit when I first went in. Do you think she was actually a virgin or just an anomaly?
     

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