having sex for the first time :\

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  1. J-Tizzle

    J-Tizzle Guest

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    should happen next saturday while up at a friend's cabin...i'm 15 and it will be my first time. any "tips" on how to not fuckk up? she's on the pill and i'll use a condom. :x: any ideas on what to do if i bust before she gets off? :hsd:
     
  2. Grizz

    Grizz oh, fuck, sure ..

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    i was less than a minute man my first time ... just kept goin at it, that seemed to help the situation :cool:
     
  3. BlkGS3

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    really? i stuck around for like 5 minutes
     
  4. J-Tizzle

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    it is her first time as well...hopefully she wont last like 20 minutes. :hs:
     
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    She most likely won't bust, she will most likely find it awkward and uncomfortable.

    And dude, if she says no, you better stop or someone will stop by and kick your ass. Too many young guys don't stop and give the rest of us a bad name (even teh older ones like me). Women are tresures and should be treated as such.
     
  6. J-Tizzle

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    ya. i respect her and she says yes now but if at the time she doesn't want to, i have no problem with that. i would never use someone like that, that would be disgusting.
     
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    i would suggest just reading up alot on the subject and taking it easy. dont get too nervous. jack off the day before, you'll be good for the next day. build up alot of foreplay, lotta kissing, alotta rubbing and grinding. when the clothes come off kiss all over, pay attention to the nipples but dont stay there or focus on them. kiss all over the stomach, inner thighs. tease ALOT. make her beg for it.

    if you're any good at oral sex try to get her to cum that way so then you wont feel bad if you only last 20 seconds.

    when you put on the condom, check which way it's suppose ot go. if you put it on backwards and can't roll it down... throw it away. i wouldn't risk have semen on the outside. '

    good luck, have fun!
     
  8. J-Tizzle

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    ya, i know how to put on the condom the right way...and i've given her oral before so i might try that.
     
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    she's a virgin and shes on the pill? wtf....
     
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    Thats what I was gonna say :hsd:
     
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    :werd::wtf:
     
  12. ahtnamas

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    It gets rid of cramps. Plenty of people take them for that, and only that, purpose.
     
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    gets rid of cramps? i havn't heard that before... i do know that it regulates their cycle, many girls who have an irregular cycle get pissed about getting it every 40 days, or every 20 days, and go on it just for that.
     
  14. BedBunny

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    yep, i started taking it to get rid of hellish cramps. i had cramps so bad i would end up sick to my stomach and puking.
     
  15. J-Tizzle

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    she doesn't have it on the "normal" schedule so she uses it to choose when she will have it so it won't just show up.
     
  16. J-Tizzle

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    bump.
     
  17. Psychotic Beauty

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    if it will be her first time, she will be in pain and want u to get the fuck off her within 5 minutes most likely
     
  18. J-Tizzle

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    even if she's "loosened up" by fingering?
     
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    Even if you do blow very very early (you will, I was being nice), you can still tounge or finger her. Less of course you are breaking her hymen and don't like blood. Getting off does not mean sex is over.

    Bring more than one condom, and put it on right!
     
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    can i have a wild guess, is this for a social club?
     
  21. J-Tizzle

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    whats a social club?
     
  22. pangx623

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    jack off first,:wackit: ...so you'll last that extra few minutes......
     
  23. J-Tizzle

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    ya i might try that...but since i probably will be busy all day...i might not be able to.
     
  24. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Make sure you are by a bathroom. Expect blood and lots of it the first few times.
     
  25. booxbooxkittie

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    If I was a guy, I would not. It hurts the first time for a girl and she basically just wants it to be over with...the sooner you're done the better for her...and make sure you take it SLOW...
     

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