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  1. JakobwithaK

    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    Im on a serious note here. I have been offered jobs in the XXX business before. What is the best way to go about doing this, if say I escort discreetly as a side job? I need $$$ fast, and sick of living paycheque to paycheque. Do I need a license? It would be fairly simple for a woman to get into this, but for guys its much harder...as girls just dont pay for sex. Doesnt have to be escorting, but something that brings in big dollars and fast. I wouldnt be doing this for a year, just like maybe a couple months or so and test the waters.
     
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    That kinda scares me...try not to get traped
     
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    also try asking the other forums
     
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    Don't be suprised, there is a humiliation v.s money factor. If you need money in return for sex. It means that you aren't properly managing your life. I don't believe you have many options, but i also believe that you are not exploiting your own possibilities to the full extend. Have you ever tried contacting your local job agency in order to get yourself a decend job? Young strong males are wanted by some porn makers, and in gay society there's also a wanted level for boys like you, and don't be suprised if you get offers like that. You will lose your dignity in return for money.

    I advice you only to do this as an absolute last resort, try to get yourself a decend job unless this is truelly what you want, and don't expect anything from this branch of industry.

    DO NOT HAVE UNSAFE SEX at any price, aids is spreading thru the porn industry, when everyone is doing it with everyone catching something is almost certain, using condoms at all time, along with this http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0965119025/102-6705999-8231302?v=glance book should get you somewhere.
     
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    it's not worth it...there's other ways of making money. don't sell yourself
     
  6. Malghanim

    Malghanim My wee wee has been Stricken with Rigor Mortis

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    if your gonna go into escorting rather then the porn industry thats a whole other ball game..

    you will have to sleep with ugly ass woman.. i mean horrible. assuming worst case scenario!
     
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    I think there will come a time when you will regret having done so.
    And you'd pay 10x, 100x, a 1000x what little you got in order to erase the past.

    But the past, once done, cannot be undone.
     
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    I used to drive escorts. Every single one of them 'wanted' to be an escort, because the money was good, etc. Every single one of them was also broke and miserable. Jobs like that are highly destructive to the human soul. You may think you're the smart one, taking someone's money, etc, but really, you are reducing yourself to a commodity. Something to be used, then discarded.
     
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    male escorts are rarely hired by women. most often they're hired by men
     
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    i totally agree, well said. it's really not worth it, i really wish you would reconsider.
     
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    Money is not important enough to sell the sexual part of your soul for it. You seek to fulfill your worldly desires by helping others to fulfill theirs, and brother... that only leads to more worldy desires. It will never be enough money. You'll only want more. And you'll lose more and more of yourself as you get it.

    Also, male prostitutes generally have sex with men. Can you handle that?
     
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    i would think that would be enough to sway anybody.:eek3:
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    ive been told yes. Ive been offered stripping jobs before in the past, but not my forte. escorting is more discreet, i can do it on the side without anyone knowing.

    Anyways, i thought i should explain my financial situation right now. My mom is very pissed at me and she has the right to, i am in debt...I owe so much money to just about everyone. I owe her about $3500 after today (thats not even including tuition), my sister about $400, other $200, other $600, and have about $15,000 in other debts from years back.

    so as you can imagine, with xmas 2 months away, i need $$$ fast. i first need to pay off my family, at least my mom...and then go from there.
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    thats some good advice, thanks.

    I know it is degrading, but right now im my situation i have no other choice if i want to live. Even if i find decent jobs, it still doesnt cut it. I either quit them within a month or less or make myself get canned because its not what i wanna do. im tired to taking crap jobs just for the money. So I figure why not sell my best asset and provoke it for money. Its either this, or i sell drugs.

    I just need to know a way of going about it. I have called a few places and they have said i would have to go with a strictly male agency.
     
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    if you're that bad off, repeat after me. Bankruptcy.
     
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    Well gee, I wonder why you're having money troubles. You think escorting will be a job you'll 'want' to do?

    Good luck, you are a prime escort candidate. Your attitude fits with that of all the girls I used to drive. Welcome to your new life. You won't ever leave the trade, because nothing else will pay you 'as well'. You wont ever have any cash, because you'll spend it all on immediate self-gratification (new toys, clothes, drugs, etc)

    Before you know it, you'll be thirty-five, with nothing to show for it other than a few STDs and no self-respect.

    Or, you could suck it up, take a job you don't really like, get yourself out of debt, and take up a trade
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    Well you see my friend, its all about self motivation and driving yourself to achieve these goals. Something I lack and so on and off.
     
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    and you think whoring yourself out will give you more self-motivation? I suggest starting to take pride in yourself. Work, and take pride in the fact that, instead of leeching off of others, you're in an honest occupation, and paying your own way. There is no shame in working a 'low class' job. Everyone has to start somewhere, very few people get their way paid into the nice, high-priced jobs. Most people had to work places like McDs and such to get through school
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    I agree, thats what my family always tells me. Never be ashamed if you work for $8/hr, its the $ that counts - whatever it takes to pay the bills and put food on the table.

    Now, I know its going to be absolutely impossible to pay all my debts this year. But what I really need to do first and foremost is find a real job and pay mom back. None of this 1 day a week crap. I do have experience, so its not like im just starting out. Just tired of crap jobs that underpay you, and want something really rewarding.

    If my parents or anyone in my family found out I am even considering working in the XXX business, they would look down on me. But I also, want to give them big rewards as well for everything they have done for me. I dont do nearly enough for my parents as an adult should. I do leach off my parents and others far too much (24), and its time I get my act together.
     
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    trust me on this, and im speaking as someone who's been on the inside of the industry in the past, this is not the way to go.

    If your debts are so unmanageable, declare bankruptcy. It's unlikely you will lose anything, other than your credit rating, which is probably shot anyways. That will clear off pretty much all debt except family debt, which you can begin to pay back once you're on your feet again.
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    Ive been thinking about filing for bankruptcy, but doesnt it cost money? Wont be able to clear my credit for 7yrs.

    About a year ago, from today...one of my sisters gave me shit about how i need to do something with my jobs and get my act together. She went absolutely rank on me, and she had the right to. She said how Im relying on my parents way too much, and that I would be dead if it wasnt for them - which is very true. I wouldnt be here today if it wasnt for them. I am not too happy with myself, I admit I could benefit from living on the other side of the world alone, with nothing and stop taking so many things in life for granted. Start appreciating the little things people do for you in life more. That will teach me to stop relying on the parents, and teach me the hard way - thats what I need.

    I do right now, and have gotten better over the years (i used to be really selfish), but I still have improvements to make. I do consider myself selfish still, though not to the extreme when I was younger. Why do you think I am in debt? because when I work and get money, it goes right to shit that I buy and dont need.

    I have to focus on the priorities in life and thats bills, giving it to the people who have supported me. Frankly, every single penny I make for the next 10yrs should be going to the parents, for everything they have done for me. But they are just too giving of people (especially to their own children), that they never take anything from us. Well, I know it hurts them deeply...and it hurts me as well, how Im not returning the favour. I dont show my appreciation like how a son should.

    Why do you think my mom is absolutely pissed at me right now? Well, that right there, is a whole new chapter, because we have such opposite outlooks on education. She and my father as well, forced and demanded for me to go into college when I wasnt ready for it. They demanded me to, no matter how much I hated it. I recently (Sept 05) dropped out of my 2nd year in college, because I couldnt take it any longer. Nothing was going right for me; Lost the interest, motivation, will to learn, the people, having conflicts with my instructors, everyday life was just downright as miserable as it could get etc. School the 1st year was making me severely depressed, and no matter how much counselling I attended, it didnt help. I tried and tried and tried to stay positive, set goals and reach them, and was able to pull it out for a year (which honestly I regret), but didnt have the confidence to do it for one more year.

    So, basically shes downright pissed because I dropped out and gave up on that course - even though really I just switched colleges, because im in another school now. But the fact that she pretty much lost $1000 to the school as they only refund 50% of the most recent paid tuition, since I dropped out on the first day of the 2nd year...and to get full 100% back, you would have to drop out 2 weeks prior to the starting date. She is absolutely pissed!!! she could seriously right now, strangle me to death. I cant do shit about this, but pay her back. But she also must understand, that I never wanted to go back into the 2nd year. And she knew it, I made her aware of it, but nooo they just demanded I go back. She also must understand, even though its a $1000 loss, if I were to stay and not be happy, it would cost much much more time and money...and eventually lost as well. My sisters understand me 100% on my decision of college, but my parents dont. They just think "get the diploma ASAP and get it over with, rush it! rush it! rush it!"

    But shes also pissed because, I make stupid decisions and I need to find a job - and hold onto it!

    Since then, and for the past 4yrs I have pretty much been doing temp jobs. The full time gigs, didnt last long. But nobody can deny that its pretty damn hard to save up during school when you cant even work a full time job. During my first year school, I held a job for 6 months...until I got fired. And to hell with those fuckers anyways, what a joke company.
     
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    alright, now, be honest here, is the sex trade your way of fixing all this, or running from all this?

    first of all, you are an adult now, and you need to make your own decisions in life. Your parents cant force you to do a damned thing anymore. Try saying no. They may kick you out, and that would be their right, but at least you'll be living your own life.

    Do you do any drugs? (ie weed)

    Bankruptcy does cost money, but nowhere near as much as your debts are. In my case (this is in Canada, may be different there) bankruptcy cost me $1500. I didn't have to pay anything extra, I kept my car, all my stuff, etc. Your bankruptcy trustee can explain everything to you, they do not charge for the intial consult.
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    Well Im not sure if working in the XXX business would fix it or harm it, because all I know is, when I have $ Im happy.

    For me $=Happiness.

    I dont want to sound like im neglecting anything you say because im not. But lets say I was offered $ just out of nowhere, by some random ladies I just met. I find them physically attractive, right now..I would take that $ and give them the services they want.

    I know, thats sad. But how i see it is, women see me as such a sex object and a piece of meat anyways. By them judging from my appearance (face, body etc), and just wanting flings. So, that is pretty much why I have been lookin into sex favours as a job. I figure, I cant find a damn worthy career job to show my talents, and something in my forte, why not do this?

    Who knows...its depressing.

    And no, I dont do drugs.
     
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    JakobwithaK Titty fuck for the win!

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    I just hate this, life is just miserable for me right now. it just seems, no matter what job I apply for...im never qualified. The only ones that I am qualified for, are ones that i quit within an hour. But then again, those jobs have no requirements!

    I just feel so left out in life, its so depressing. I feel neglected, ignored, even non-existant at times. Like, im some outsider who no one cares for.
     
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    Wrong. You feel like $=Happiness, but, it doesn't. There's a reason why you always have to have MORE. It's like a drug, you feel good in the short term, but you always need more and more. True happiness comes when you accept yourself, your position in life, and learn to be content with what you have. This does not mean don't strive for better, but be content with what you have to begin with.

    Male escorts do NOT service women. I asked. Out of all the calls the agency received for male escorts, maybe one out of a thousand was from a woman. The vast majority is from men.

    Think about it, most women, if they want to get laid, can merely go to a bar.
     

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