Haven't been laid in a few years, married ex wants to start an affair. Should?

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  1. SolidRanger

    SolidRanger New Member

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    I've been in a funk for a while. My married ex girlfriend wants to start an affair. I need to get laid so bad it's really hard to say no to this.

    I am aware that by typical believe doing so would be wrong, but the way I see it, I'm just a single guy that's gonna get laid. She's the one cheating.

    I've tried getting laid but I have no game anymore and have crashed and burned every time I tried. Recent prospects have gone nowhere.

    What do you think guys? Is it worth it?
     
  2. Fucker

    Fucker out of the fast lane, bitches

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    depends on how much you like having to watch your back.

    on the other hand, women can smell desperation, as soon as you start fucking the ex, you'll meet someone.
     
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    :hsugh: She's the one cheating, but you're equally involved in the "affair". I would feel way too guilty personally.

    Regardless, this could get really messy.
     
  4. SolidRanger

    SolidRanger New Member

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    Yeah it could, but goddamn its been 3 years I need sex ffs
     
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    This will end quite well.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I think it's a horrendous idea.

    But I'm sure you don't have the willpower or moral compass to say no, so it probably doesn't matter what I think.
     
  7. SolidRanger

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    I know it's wrong, it's just that, at this point, I just don't give a fuck anymore.

    Anymore, the way I see it, life is gonna fuck you over one way or another, you might as well go on the offensive and get as much as you can out if it while you can and fuck it first
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yep, I knew you'd start rationalizing that if it weren't cheating on her husband with you it would be another guy....and one day you'll look back at yourself and say "jesus christ, I was so pathetic."

    I find this even more interesting considering how insane you were in your own thread just days ago about how cheating is the worst thing ever in a relationship. Sure, you're not cheating on someone, but you'd single-handedly be helping someone cheat on their HUSBAND. What goes around comes around...
     
  9. BlackIce72

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    Well you'll likely lose some respect for yourself and her if you do this.

    At the same time it will likely give you more sexual confidence, which could help you get out of the current sexual rut.

    Really short term... it could be cool
    General short term... probably pretty cool
    Medium term... damn it could get awkward and weird
    Long term (after it's over)... probably pretty cool if you use the momentum to slay some other dragons
     
  10. SolidRanger

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    I didn't manufacture the circumstances that lead her to want to cheat. Believe me, I'd much prefer she not be married, but it's really hard to keep saying no...:dunno:
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes:

    Enjoy having your wife cheat on you in the future with her ex.
     
  12. SolidRanger

    SolidRanger New Member

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    Meh, probably would be only a matter of time anyway. Relationships are so expendable to people these days, I might as well stop being a schmuck and follow along. Being the bigger man sure as hell hasn't gotten me anywhere
     
  13. Pounce

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    This!!! :wtf:

    I don't understand aaaahhh
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Just blind ignorance.

    Pussy can blind the weak-minded :dunno:
     
  15. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I gave you the benefit of the doubt the first half dozen retarded threads you made and figured maybe you were just in a rough spot, but now I'm convinced you're just determined to make bad decisions. So why should we even bother responding to your threads? It's obvious you know what the right thing to do is and it's obviously you've already resolved to do the exact opposite.
     
  16. SolidRanger

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    Hey, if you've got a better solution I'm all ears, but nothing I'm trying is working
     
  17. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    To get laid? Are you serious? You're telling us that you are so pathetic that you can't get a girl to sleep with you aside from this one chick? You're never gonna find a decent girl if all you do is keep whoring around with shitty ones.
     
  18. SolidRanger

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    Pretty much. Or if I want to really slum it and fuck fat chicks or hookers. Atleast I earned this one.

    If I could find a decent girl I wouldn't be fucking around with shitty ones now would I?
     
  19. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You haven't even been trying. What happened with the IHOP girl and the girl in your class?
     
  20. Viper

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    The fact that you can't find a decent girl says something about yourself. That's a hard realization (that I myself have had) because the people that come into your limited scope of experience mean that that is where your focus is at.

    There are loads of decent girls out there, but the truth is in order to attract them you have to be a decent guy. And if you were honest with yourself...truly honest with yourself...you'd discover that you're not that decent guy you think you are.

    I know, because I've been there. This is something I discovered through my own personal experience. The truth was, that I was bitter, angry, and hopeless fuck. Was it any wonder that i kept attracting crazy, angry, and worthless girls into my frame of existence? No it wasn't.

    Fact is, if you want to find a decent girl, then get the fuck up off your ass and improve yourself. Go out and take on the world, challenge your current beliefs and assumptions, and then change them. When you change your beliefs and your values, you'll discover that your actions will naturally follow.
     
  21. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    And fuck, beer, you've become almost intolerable anymore. The way you berate the fuck out of people is pathetic. If you weren't a mod, I'd probably put you on my IL. Tone it the fuck down a bit. Or take a break or something because you just come across as a fucking bitch. Damn.
     
  22. BlackIce72

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    Viper shows his venom
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oooo, viper's a dick!
     
  24. Viper

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    :rofl:
     
  25. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Surely a wet pussy isn't worth as much as your personal integrity and self respect?
     

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