FRK Have you seen my sex drive?

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  1. Jinx

    Jinx Active Member

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    Because I think that I've lost it. :sad2: I don't know what's wrong with me right now.

    Less than a month ago, I was completely insatiable.. And now, I could care less if I got laid. I haven't had a "dry" spell since I lost my virginity three years ago. I was either in a very sexually fulfilling relationship or I had a FWB that was reliable. :dunno:

    Is that normal? For the first time in three years, I have no desire to have sex.
     
  2. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    stress? hormones? diet?
     
  3. Jinx

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    Nothing's changed. :dunno: I think it escaped in a sneeze. :o
     
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    BAM betterthanyou'er OT Supporter

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    can i fly you out here and help you find it :o
     
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    a good friend of mine just randomly lost hers too, its gota be something in the water

    she was the same if she didnt have a BF she had a FWB, and now she doesnt care about sex or masturbating at all, she did movie away from home, and start smoking so i think some of hers is depression
     
  6. Smoked

    Smoked $5.50? Man fuck the avatar...how about you just sh

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    Is it impossible to think that nothing excites you right now?

    Perhaps you need a dry spell so the next encounter doesn't end up "run of the mill".

    The human brain is funny like that. When things get boring, it gets bored.
     
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    what's my prize if i find it for you? :naughty:

    my advice is not to sweat it, it'll come back sooner or later
     
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    I wish I would have known I would have looked for it on my way back from portage tonight :doh:
     
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    NYM3 Is this teal life or is it....fanta-sea?

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    You're not the only one :wtc:
     
  10. David02

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    Jinx -

    Is it that you have lost your desire for sex or you have lost your desire for anything sexual at all? A girl I used to date when on a dry spell for a while where she didn't want sex at all, but she still masturbated pretty often. It was kinda confusing. It only lasted about a month for her though, then we were back to our old ways of fucking on a daily basis.
     
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    Maybe you need to try new things.

    I'll get to a point where I don't really care if I have sex or not, but then i'll just chill for a while then think of new stuff to try and i'm goin again.
     
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    Come to teh west! AZ seems to have sex in the air..
     
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    Its surprising how many people actually think that other people are supposed to be horny and wanting sex ALL THE TIME.

    I have a good relationship with my fiance, when we first started dating, we had sex all the time. Then, it just sort of started to dwindle off for me. I wasn't in the mood for it, I felt like it would take too much effort for me to get ready for it (ie: primping, showering, cleaning, etc), and then it was because I felt that he wanted more than me, and more than what I could give him.

    Now, I just don't give a rat's ass. I masturbate when I feel like it, and I have sex when I want to. For me, its like a faucet. I'm either hot or cold, and I'm not on all the time :dunno:

    Its fairly normal, however, and I wouldn't worry too much about it.
     
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    That's the thing.. Up until two weeks ago, I had the sex drive of a 16 year old boy; I was ridiculous. Now, I could care less. :dunno:
     
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    That's basically how I am right now.
     
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    you just decribed my wife. While I don't expect her to want it all the time, at least once every six months would be nice.:wtc:
     
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    Dry spells happen to everyone. Its nothing to be concerned about. Use the time to throw yourself into your work or whatever else you find rewarding. One day you will wake up and want to fuck. Thats how it useually works for me.
     
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    Man, I know what youre saying...well my wife evidently does. I have a ridiculously high sex drive, and since we have been missing out on sleep etc with a 2 yr old at our feet, its very difficult to find the "time" (read: time when not tired)

    When her drive comes back, it comes back with a vengeance.....for a couple of hours. :hsugh:

    Im really hoping for a resurgence of "Sex drive-The way it used to be".
     
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    Oh you poor guy! :hug:


    I just got married and I hope that doesn't happen to us. We're still averaging 4-5 times per week... it's pretty much been that way our whole 3-year relationship.

    Did you guys used to have it all the time? Did it dwindle off gradually, or did it all of a sudden just stop? How old are you and your wife?

    Do you try to romance her?
     
  20. psalm

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    Start exercising more, that has never failed me.
     
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    i'm 29, she's 28. We still hit it 4-5 time a week, but even if I romance her I still ahve to beg for it (practically) I think its the Pill she's on. Getting it changed soon. We've been together 9 years and married 4. I guess I;'m going to have to accept that that's the way she is.
     
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    FallNAngel ...destroyer of threads...

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    Wow, I'm 25 and my wife is 23. We have sex once a month; twice if I'm lucky. Each time, I have to get her intersted. Unfortunately it's pretty much always been this way and she's unwilling to change BC pills. Makes me really feel bad when people say "We don't have enough sex... we only do it 4-5 times a week now" :wtc:
     
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    he lives! :wavey:
     
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    FallNAngel ...destroyer of threads...

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    Yeah, well for now anyway. I've been lurking and posting in topics here or there. Good to see some people are still around back from when I posted a bit more frequently on the freaky.
     
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    you guys are missed.
     

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