MIL have a gf/wife while you're in the military

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  1. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    is it that hard to maintain a relationship while in service? knowing how most american women are, they cannot live without cock for more than a couple weeks. what are you experiences with this?

    thanks.
     
  2. Julius

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    oh, it's fine for the most part as long as you don't deploy.

    when you deploy, shit starts falling apart.
     
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    Hardest job in the world is being a FAITHFUL military spouse/gf. From my personal experience, both parties usually end up being un-faithful. At the same time, I've seen a select few healthy marriages that work.

    It is really all dependant on the strength of the relationship and the willingness on both sides to make it work.

    But ask Accord about his fiance, :mamoru:
     
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    AF and married, so far so good
     
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    TRN Well-Known Member

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    True.

    Good ones are far and few between.
     
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    I couldn't have said it better. I am on deployment #8 and have been with my wife through all of them. It just take a little extra work but in the end, it is worth it.
     
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    its tough even for the ones that are perfect id say...
     
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    brackac Fuck all of this. OT Supporter

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    11+ years.
     
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    so you think... :mamoru:
     
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    whitecouch spendin' our golden years in OT Supporter

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    Came here to post this.:hsugh:
     
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    usmcdevil wouldnt you like to know

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    i dont think im going to have a problem with any of that im getting married soon.
     
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    Well I didn't get married to my wife until about 6 months before I got out of the Navy. As far as I know she was always faithful as far as I know (Pretty certain of that actually).

    Before I met my wife I met a girl out at a club and we hit it off real good. She gave me her number we met up again a few nights later and she let it out that she was married to a guy that was deployed on a 6 month cruise.
    Needless to say that I got the fuck out of there and learned quickly to look out for the med singles.
     
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    it's different when you're older. :mamoru:

    in the 18-mid 20's range someone is going to cheat. and sadly it isn't the female a lot of times. when i first joined and got to my first command i met them in the gulf my chief sat me down for the welcome talk and one thing he said was "i don't know how you are morally but you WILL see stuff out here that is questionable". Guys on deployment cheat more than the females back home imo...
     
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    As long as, your gf/wife is NOT in the service her self or your GF/Wife have no history of cheating...you will be alright.

    Just keep her with your parents when you deploy...lol
     
  16. Julius

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    hate to say it, because it works out for some, but marriages within the service usually end up in catastrophic failure.
     
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    i wont say more but i will agree that it happens alot, i saw just as many maried guys go out and get girls in port on deployment as i did divorces/breakups over cheating when we got back home...BUT i was in hawaii so it might have driven the girls there to go out and have a good time more or something...who knows :dunno:
     
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    brackac Fuck all of this. OT Supporter

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    That comment was uncalled for. :mad:
     
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    Because it was so obvious :o
     
  20. brackac

    brackac Fuck all of this. OT Supporter

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    You best pray I do not get stationed at Drum.
     
  21. Jyokker

    Jyokker The trouser snake is very aggressive. It will corn

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    23 years?
    You have been married longer than some of these guys have been alive.
     
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    ibthreadsfromyousayinghowmuchyouhateyourwifeand/orthegirlyouwerefuckingnowwantsyoutogetadivorceandbewithher
     
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    Mommy?
     
  24. usmcdevil

    usmcdevil wouldnt you like to know

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    :rofl::rofl: rolo i wish you was here to meet her but i think you will when either i get stationed on new river or i EAS
     
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    more like, you better pray you don't get stationed at Drum.
     
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