LGBT Has anybody ever bagged a straight guy?

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  1. coma

    coma New Member

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    How do you seduce a straight guy into gay sex? Is it possible? I don't want to force it upon him (my secret crush from work). I also don't want to get him drunk for it or be otherwise deceptive. We are not close by any means. If I asked him directly I'm sure it would spook him and I wouldn't want it to get out at work if it backfired. I haven't told him I'm gay but it's pretty obvious that I am though maybe not to him. A couple more complications: he's only 19...which means I'm well over twice his age. Also, he lives with a girl, but he never refers to her as a girlfriend but refers to her by name. He seems to me to be too much of a pretty boy (metro?) to be straight, and I even overheard him called a fag by another guy, sort of in a tone of a "joke" but not really. But anyway, how do you get a straight guy? I always go for the straights (uh...in my mind that is) because the flamers that walk with a swish and talk with a lisp don't do it for me.
     
  2. Ozner

    Ozner Offical TSL OP Leghumper

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    He prob doesn't know what he wants yet, so maybe you can lead him the way.
     
  3. marxwa99

    marxwa99 Boom Squad

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    Not every gay man is a flamer that walks with a swish, talks with a lisp, etc. etc. Find the ones who fit your criteria.

    Enjoy the crush for the time being, but move on. There are better fish in the sea than a 19yo who doesnt even know what life is all about yet.
     
  4. Taylor

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    I resent that :nono:
     
  5. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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  6. RedGoober4Life

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    No, I have morals.

    The short amount of time that I'd enjoy the sex wouldn't make up for the days I'd feel like complete shit for letting myself do something so dirty.
     
  7. Taylor

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    I wouldn't do it. You gotta admit it would make him feel pretty bad. I know I'd feel bad if I got drunk and was tricked into having sex with some girl.

    Although there are more than a few straight guys I know that I'd like to do the nasty with :naughty:
     
  8. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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  9. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    yes, there is a method to getting str8t guys, and no it is NOT inebriation, but simple psychology... However, I've been called a DL Enabler, so I shouldn't perpetuate such bad things.

    :o
     
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    sorry didn't mean that remark personally. I was just saying that because it seemed like he knew what exactly he was looking for and this 19yo didn't. Usually i like to date people that are on the same page and wavelength as I. I wasn't sayin all 19yos don't know where they're goin :hs: Anyways, you're a smart cookie :)
     
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    or 6ft of rope :rofl:
     
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  13. Sam Gamgee

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    Rope was not required... He had an open mind and had enough alcohol in him to lose what little inhibitions he had about the situation.

    He's married with kids now and we talk occasionally. He's totally straight. But, man, he liked getting his dick sucked... and he even let me fuck him once... although it was my first time (this was in high school) and I didn't know what the hell I was doing.
     
  14. darkside316

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    WEll, this is my first post on here aside from one about a car. For the most part, it isnt worth it. It isnt really that hard to do as I am just like you coma, I like guys who act straight (or gay guys who are butch to be more specific). But the downside is, if you get them which I always have, after you do, if you are like me, you get attached as it happens again and again. But the dirty side of the trick on us is, they ALWAYS go back to women. And trust me, it will happen AFTER you get attached.
     
  15. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :rolleyes: ...giving you the excuse that they were only attracted to YOU, not MALES in general.
     
  16. darkside316

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    Not hardly that they were attracted to me...only. Actually, most of them I find later have had some experience or another. They always go back to the girls so they can stay in the closet rather than be brave enough to live life as a gay person and be labeled.
     
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    I am up to 2 straight guys now....

    Well 1 and a 1/2, cause one has since decided to go bi. :mamoru:

    I'm evil :bigthumb:
     
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    I don't want to be mean but...do you come with your own shovel?
     
  19. CoCo

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    some like it rough :naughty: ;)

    hit it until it bleeds :eek4:
     
  21. NOVAJock

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    Some of you guys are a little too harsh on darkside in my opinion. Back off a little. I don't think he said anything that really warranted the kind of responses he got from some of you.
     
  22. CoCo

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    what are you talking about? He only got one negative response (albeit laughed at (and by that, arguably cosigned)), which isn't all that bad.

    My comment (it case it wasn't clear) was an attempt to add in my experience, because when I went through something similar, that's what I was told...

    Anyway, if your feeling attacked, cupcake, sorry darkside... No real harm meant. We really aren't a pack of vicious queers...all of the time...
     
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    It's possible that I misinterpreted the responses.
     
  24. bioyuki

    bioyuki Ich habe Angst

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  25. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...was it your friend?? The one that you wanted a lil while ago???
     

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