Hard to tell if this girl is interested :P

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  1. snoozeallday

    snoozeallday OT Supporter

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    Just got out of a long relationship, been keeping it healthy and just staying active in general. It's not too bad actually, way better than I thought it was going to be.

    So anyways, shortly after the break-up I had my birthday, and invited this girl that had been myspace friends with me for awhile, we'd seen each other around, etc. Since then we've met up at bars a few times and just had some drinks, most of the time we brought friends with us or invited other people. I was cool with this because my objective lately was just to meet as many new people as possible.

    She's cute and interesting but kind of out of my league (at least I think so). She's also really flirtatious with everyone, which doesnt bother me, but it makes it really hard to gauge interest. Anyways, I was pretty sure I was friendzoned (which is still fine :big grin:)

    So we were talking online and we just got out of sync with our messages and I got confused, bla bla bla, it went something like this.

    Me: What?
    Her: (insert another confusing statement that didnt correspond)
    Me: lol what?
    Her: Haha just trying to confuse you even more?
    Me: hah i think thats what all girls are trying to do to me..
    Her: we are good at it? ha
    Me: lol i knowwwww. i just wanna meet a nice, good girl
    Her: aw and i am not nice or good?
    thankssssss
    haha

    Soo.. after that I told her yeah i think you are, I'm just tired of going out to bars/clubs etc. She said "yeah me too" (even though she's the one who always chose them). Then i asked her "Why don't we do something nice for a change then?" She said yes. I told her either she could tell me her favorite restaurant OR i'd come over and we could cook together and hang out at her place. She said she wanted to do both.. but she had to pay for dinner when we went out..


    Now, am I alright in assuming she is definitely interested?
     
  2. CHOWBOX

    CHOWBOX OT Supporter

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    she's interested.

    go
     
  3. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    Definitely. :bigthumb:


    Go for it man. The cooking dinner at her place was a perfect suggestion man. Smooth.


    Good luck, keep us posted.


    Not that you need this, but to clarify, I'd say she's damn interested.
     
  4. ripcurl

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    Sounds like a go to me.

    also in ref to above, this is healthy in my opinion. I know some will disagree but if the girl is in your league, you can find better. Challenge yourself.
     
  5. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    Better yet, have self-confidence and feel that she is 'under' your league. Their's nothing wrong with self-confidence, as long as you don't confuse it with ignorance and being cocky.

    Good luck!
     
  6. CHOWBOX

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    "your league" is only in your mind. Make her in your league.
     
  7. ASoT

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    I don't know how much more obvious it gets. Of course she's interested. If she's as pretty as you say she is and you truly feel out of her league, one of your main worries should be that you don't portray this to her. Confidence my man, go get her.
     
  8. snoozeallday

    snoozeallday OT Supporter

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    Well I'm a bigger guy. hah. Don't know how else to say it. The girl that I recently split with is hot. This girl is hot. I really dont understand, however my girl-friends tell me I come off as really confident etc, and I honestly think thats ALL it is. (which is fine by me :big grin:)
     
  9. ripcurl

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    it's all you need really - initially.
     
  10. snoozeallday

    snoozeallday OT Supporter

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    :p whatever happens, happens.
     
  11. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    All systems go.

    Go to her place. Have her cook. Bring a bottle of wine. Lay on the couch and watch a movie. Proceed to the let your hands explore her body, paying close attention to the inner thighs.

    I am sure you know what to do from here ;)
     
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    I Guest

    DO IT
     
  13. snoozeallday

    snoozeallday OT Supporter

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    :rofl: roger that hahahaha
     
  14. victimizati0n

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    go for it, but "Me: hah i think thats what all girls are trying to do to me.."

    dont say shit like that
     

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