hard time figuring out if she is really interested or not?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I recently started going out with a late 20's female for about the last month and a half. I am having a really hard time figuring out whether or not she is really interested in me. she seems like she is very excited to see me, hang out with me, and always will text me, but she will rarely ever call or want to set a time to hang out. I have to always call her and ask her if she wants to get together, which every time I ask she wants to which is a good thing. I just wish she was just more forward because i don't want to be wasting my time, if she truly isn't interested or just wants to hang out nothing more. We haven't had sex, but have done everything else which is also kinda weird, but since i haven't been dating in a few years, maybe a month 1 1/2 months is not long enough.

    She I lay back more and let her call or initiate getting together? At the same time i just don't want her to think i am not interested in her either.
     
  2. Aronomy

    Aronomy Get your COME ON!

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    Sounds like what girls do when they have a boyfriend. Not meeting in person too much, texting only. Nice.
     
  3. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    pretty much
     
  4. ldaggerl

    ldaggerl New Member

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    Its true. No sex usually means that they haven't cheated because they had any dick in them. Of course anal doesn't count because well its not the vagina lol.

    Sounds like she's using you for a guy on the side to listen to all her shit while her boy friend gets all the good thing.

    I'd just stop asking her to hang out and if she doesn't say anything drop the girl. But hey I could be way off base.
     
  5. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Here's a trick I use for finding the right woman:

    Take her swimming in a secluded spot where you won't be disturbed. Hold her head under the water for about 10 minutes. If she comes up and is still alive, she loves you.

    It can take a few failures though. I'm still looking for the one.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Stop calling/texting her for a few days. If she doesn't try to reach you then you have your answer.
     
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  7. infinite.purple

    infinite.purple New Member

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    why is it that everyone always suggests figuring out other peoples' games by playing more games?

    JUST ASK HER
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She probably wont answer the phone :mamoru:
     
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    infinite.purple New Member

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    hah actually ya. I don't really answer mine either. text her then! :p
     
  10. antihero

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    Who cares?

    she txt you frequently, accepts your invitations eagerly, and plays with your penis. Whats the problem?
     
  11. ldaggerl

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    because he wants to put it in her butt and she won't let him :wtc:
     
  12. antihero

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    doesn't sound like he even tried yet
     
  13. PcH

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    I've had a couple girls recently in a situation like this.

    Last night I was talking with this girl. I'm diggin her and I get a lot of neutral feedback from her. Her friends outright told me last night that she said to them that she likes me. :dunno:
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    then there is his answer :)
     
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    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    This.

    And I love how the first 3 posts were "she has a bf and is cheating on him". How fucking jaded are you people against women that you read that post and immediately come to that conclusion? :ugh:
     
  16. PcH

    PcH Guest

    :werd: Vag is pretty jaded
     
  17. JBunni

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  18. Chadder007

    Chadder007 OG Diamond Member

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    :bowrofl:
     
  19. quamen

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    thanks guys for the comments, ill keep you updated on what comes about from this. Maybe i am reading to far into this, we don't get together as much because i am currently finishing another degree up and running my business so my time is kinda tight.
     
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    Chadder007 OG Diamond Member

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    He didn't say she didn't want to meet out in public. She just doesn't want to be the one to initiate the call or set the date. A lot of women are like that.
     
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    :bowdown: get a straight answer
     
  22. poz

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    :rofl::rofl: i had a girl do that to me. she'd go out with me, make out, and basically hang out all the time with me. she said she couldn't have sex and i pretty much figured out that it was because she thought that sex was the only thing considered cheating.
     

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