Well, I met this girl about 6 weeks ago at this place I volunteer once a week. Since the first time I saw her I couldn't get my eyes off of her. About 2 weeks ago we started talking online. I tried to get her to use the phone, but she said shes too shy for that. That's cool with me. We kinda talked and she was pretty straight forward about hooking up and stuff. She would ask me personal questions and just try to get to know me. She would also tell me how she can't sleep at night due to thinking about me, last night when we saw each other for the first time after talking about getting together and stuff, she told me that she was never that shy in her life, and just things like that. Well everything looks good right? I shouldn't be worring right? I still am!! I got hurt so many times this year I think I lost a lot of trust in girls. In the past I had similar situations where everything seemed great and out of the blue, they just want to be friends and blah blah.... She is a very busy person and she told me that its why she doesn't have a boyfriend right now. I was thinking, why the hell are you talking about getting with me then lol ^ problem #1 (which might not even be a problem, she might make the time to see me if she likes me so much) Starting next fall shes going to a college 300 miles away. I am not sure how that is going to work, and that scares me too. ^ Problem #2 We are not going out right now, but that will most likely change. I am just scared, really scared of getting hurt again,, becuase I feel different towards her, i feel a lot stronger then i ever did towards any girl. I'll be glad to give you any more details that I might have left out, just ask. I just need help on how to handle this. btw - we are both 18.