I dated a girl for ~ 6 years and as the time indicates we were pretty serious... talk of marriage, perfect for each other, etc... She broke up with me about 5 months ago and the first couple months we really didn't talk much. We started hanging out again as friends and the last 1.5 months we have been getting close again with saying I love you, saying how much we mean to each other, having sex occasionally, and cuddling, etc.. Just as a background I didn't treat her all that well when we were going out. I never cheated and was very faithful to her, never abused her physically, but I wasn't really there for her and didn't give the love and attention that she deserved. When she dumped me I was in a pretty rough spot and in order to get out of it completely reinvented myself and changed a lot. She noticed the change and fell back in love with me, and loved the way I was treating her now, etc.. Well, she has been playing this push-pull crap with me where she says how much she loves me, wants to be with me, give us another chance.... and then all the sudden out of nowhere she says we are getting too close, she needs time apart to figure herself out and doesn't want to get hurt again. We have been playing this back and forth game for nearly 2 months now I found out that a big reason she pulls away from me is because of her friends at college. When we are together and she is away from her friends we are PERFECT together. However, when she goes back to school during the week her friends (who are mostly single) tell her to forget about me, move on, and that I am never going to really change... I am just trying to win her back and such. Unfortunately, she is rather easy to convince and she takes their advice very seriously and lets it get to her. She is 23 and for some stupid reason takes relationship advice from her 20 year old friends I guess basically, I am super confused here and I don't understand why she puts so much stock in what some 20 year olds have to say about relationships when none of them have been in one for longer than 6 months! I am getting kinda sick of being toyed with... and she feels really bad about it, but she's "just so confused". How come we can be perfect together and she will want to give us another shot, and then her friends can convince her otherwise the very next day.. and then she sees me and wants to be with me again. And for those saying her friends are just looking out for her, I am not so sure that is it. They have a friend that REALLY REALLY likes her (says he loves her, lol) and they are hell bent on getting her to date him even though she doesn't want to... so it seems their desire to keep me and her apart is more-so based on their desire to hook her up with a friend. Any input..... especially from the ladies here.