Hey so last night the gf and I got in an argument that seems to be recurring, and keeps bringing up points that I have explained to her many of times but she seem no to comprehend them. Background im 22 she’s 21 been dating for 3.5 years and have been living together for about 3. Now things have been fine up until about 4 months ago, she seems to be making up reasons for her to dislike me. She says I have mood swings and I don’t want to do anything. In my defense about a month ago she spent a good 2 months unemployed sitting at home doing nothing, board all the time. While I worked my physically demanding job and got up at early hours. Now I would walk in the door and she would want to do something right away. I just wanted to relax for a bit, she would get angry and say how board she was all day I told he to go do something but she has a problem with doing anything alone, I always have to be there, usually I don’t mind but some times I just not in the mood. Fast forward to last night, she was telling me how I have mood swings im either happy or mad no middle ground and we have nothing in common and goes off about petty shit like music yet im taking her to motley crew concert which we both really like. She said how she doesn’t like my friends and I don’t like hers. Which is bullshit I like her friends I just don’t like there boyfriends. ( reasoning for this is that one of them is an all around douche bag and the other is just a self centered prick both of which have cheated on there gf’s) now one of the friends relationship is over the other is on the rocks. Now is it so wrong to have an opinion about someone else? Now our lease is up the end of august and she said well see what we can work out before then. I told her it’s going to be her decision. I also have a feeling that because her friends are having bad relation ships and she always talking with them she picks out the negative in ours and doesn’t think about the positives, I also know her mom is moving out of her ex bf’s place and getting her own and put an offer for my girlfriend to live with her. Now this is back in Vancouver and we are in Calgary until I finish school and she knows that (1 more year) she knew this when she came here too. I hate Calgary as much as she does so I want to leave bad too. Now im not going to pull the trigger im leaving it up to her. You guys have any advice?