I have my sides & back shaved to a 1 1/2 & leave the top long enough to style & i like doing the messy look, semi-wet look. I've been using American Crew Fiber but it's a dull messy look..... I want something w/ a little more "wetness" to it. & I've tried EVERY American Crew gel product, so please don't suggest those. Any suggestions on a gel to get a "SEMI-WET MESSY" look????