okay ill be completely honest with all of u guys. i have no problem with my gf having male friends (altho i do get jealous sometimes but as long as she is honest with me, i have no problem). in the past she has told me when old male friends that she doesnt want to be associated with hit her up but not this time. i grabbed her phone friday night and read her texts for the heck of it. i dont do this all the time (not the psycho type). so i read these text messages for a number that isnt saved. just friendly talk like hey whats up, you know like friendly talk but then i see a texts that bother me him: hey when can i see u on a friday night her: i dont know yet him: i wanan see u 2nite tho her: im out tho the texts stop there, yeah i confront her and i flip out. cuss her out. i find out it was some guy she used to date. she said that they been talking since july and that he told her that i should trust her and nothing wrong with having friends. so she just kept talking to him as friends and that this week he has been asking her out but in those 3 months she said they never met. he only asked her out a few times but she has said no. so it was pure texting that she did. no actually cheating, so she claims. i have the same phone plan with her so i can see all the texting and calling she did. not that many calls. many texts since july. sept was slow. 2 weeks she texts him twice at 1:45 am after she texted me good night i love u. she tells me, she only texted him night. i told her she prolly texted him night love u. she claims no. i called her last night, shes crying and crying. very regretful for her actions. says she wont mess up again, that what she did was stupid. claims to never met him, etc. he keeps calling her now, i called him left a voice mail threatning to call police. he has stopped. we have been together for over a year. im 26, shes 23. i told her we need a week break, im threatning to break up with her. some might say its minor, its only texting but the fact that she lied to me is a big nono. i dont play games, too old for this. what should i do?