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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    ware_ru, xapu!m. Matt_Thomas, etc. FloppyCock.

    what's going in your lives with women right now?

    also. btw. what ever happened to yail bloor?

    edit: for that matter, anyone who wants to drop in to add a cliff of their info is also welcome to.
     
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  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    well, i'm working, and just working on trying to meet more women when I'm off. So far, no sparks yet...but it should just be a matter of time an patience. Believe me, I will let you all know when anything significant happens.
     
  3. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    ok :)

    where are you meeting said people?
     
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    I'm convinced ware_ru is a highly intelligent pet monkey that gets at his masters keyboard. He's never said anything relating to personality.
     
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    FloppyCock New Member

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    I moved in with my girlfriend about half a year ago. We've been together for three years now. I'm very happy with things.
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    that's cool. is it still passionate or is it more relaxed / best friends / comfortable now?
     
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    FloppyCock New Member

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    Honestly, all of the above.

    Neither are really settled into a niche in life yet, and we're moving around soon. Plenty of fun and excitement ahead.
     
  8. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :bowdown: :h5:
     
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    FloppyCock New Member

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    Just to clarify, I meant moving around together.
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    work, just when out and about, myspace, etc.

    It being cold and snowy all the time here does limit the possibilities though. Can't wait for warmer weather!
     
  12. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    well he is pretty hairy.
     
  13. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    <3<3<3<3

    I don't have a personality I'm a sequence of 300 pua routines
     
  14. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    LOL!! LOVING THE CALLOUT THREAD!!!

    :bowrofl:


    As you know im in a relationship, we are going to vegas v-day n her b-day (14+15th thru the 17th)
     
  15. JordanClarkson

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    yail is still crying
     
  16. Viper

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    The end of October I ended an e-relationship that climaxed in the trip of my life. Ended up in Seattle for a long weekend and had a blast with the girl. Sang karaoke, saw the pacific ocean, had lots of sex, lots of drinking and even smoked some pot for the first time in like 5 years. Pretty much didn't hold anything back and threw myself into it 110% (for the first time in my life).

    As a result I had the experience of my life, but then things fell apart afterwards and the relationship ended. I fly pretty high and as a result I fell pretty hard. I tried to get back out there for a while (went out to some bars and met some interesting people), but somewhere around the end of December I decided that I just needed to unplug from the whole thing, back off, and just take a break.

    And that's where I am at right now.

    I DO have 2 prospects that I'm mulling around right now and pretty much ready to get back out for another round. But for right now, I'm enjoying not worrying about that noise and have discovered that somewhere in the middle of that whole thing that I not only got over the girl, but I have gotten over my marriage failing too.

    My focus has been on my finances and my job the past couple of months. I've been burying my head in the sand with those things for two long and now I am facing them head on and dealing with them.
     
  17. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    nobody asked you
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    well... if anyone wants to pop in and drop their info in a cliff that's cool too
     
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    hmmm...what otop lives in seattle....
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    fuck youself. Guys who give advice... i mostly just give and very rarely ask. if anything I just say hey im doing this, arent i cool?
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    aftershock? idk
     
  22. BlackIce72

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    I'm probably in this category.

    I was recently briefly exclusive with someone then pursued a couple others, but nothing has really substantiated.

    I couldn't spend enough time with anybody right now (with martial arts, class, studying, and work -- not to mention tight money). However, I admit that's not a great excuse to shut intimacy out of my life.

    I've been pushing some female friends away from me recently because I'm torn about my persona. My relationships (friends and otherwise) are fun and honest, but I'm becoming less quirky than I used to be.

    I'll be the first to admit I need to be humbled by someone to come back to reality.
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    so many folks say this until five years later one person for some random reason makes it through their celibacy defenses and suddenly... voila, they have time. you are the first OT poster who's expressed any kind of self-awareness about that as an excuse.
    That's a bit vague to me. Can you elaborate?

    That too :o
     
  24. mrchina

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    I'll give it a go... just dating around for now.

    I've had a bizarre life in my few short years here on Terra, so my maturity level is through the roof... Things go well after initial meet, leads to the date, conversation flows naturally during, and more often than not it’s a great time. I’ve only had 3 dates end prematurely because of completely mashing lifestyles... but that’s just a part of the process. However, after a date or two I’ll just write them off… not because of them being immature or crazy, though some are (or I am?)... not because things don’t go well, because they do (except for a few)… sometimes they want to carry things on further, but I don’t. I find girls my age fun to be around, but I haven't found one that I can really connect to on a level that makes me want to carry things further. I’m just not the kind of person that drags things out beyond necessity. Some fault me for it, but I’m not going to date the person for the sake of dating as I don’t need someone to make my life complete. I fault others for staying in a situation they aren’t 100% about, that’s stupid.

    So that’s my story.
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    It's not clear to me from this how far you get. Do you cut loose before it gets too physically intimate? Or fuck and leave? From your posts I would guess the former.
     

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