Guys: Which do you trope towards more in your fantasies / literotica explorations?

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Which do you trope towards more in your fantasies / asstr.org explorations?

  1. Girl seducing the guy into sex.

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  2. Guy dominating the girl into sex.

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  3. Neither, I cannot choose

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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

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    - Girl seducing the guy into sex.
    - Guy dominating the girl into sex.

    or neutral, if you want to be so boring :ugh:

    Edit: replace "trope towards more" with "find hotter".

    Girls can answer for their men, although dont vote please.
     
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  2. Omerta6

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    Guy dominating the girl into sex.
     
  3. Falconer

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    I voted neither, because I have both.
     
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    Can I vote for lesbian porn?
     
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    Can I vote for Demosnat voting for Lesbian porn?
     
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    i find anything but utter enthusiasm in both parties to be disapointing.
     
  7. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i see how that's related but i'm not sure it has to be related. in either fantasy here is what i'm getting at. the party you imagine to be "lacking enthusiasm" i imagine "failing to hide overwhelming enthusiasm".
     
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    i love you in the most heterosexual way imaginable
     
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    i'd say the girl seducing the guy. although i think both are great, and once it starts hitting extremes is when it gets fun. being very dominating or having the girl coerce the guy into sex to unrealistic extents. however you did say literotica, so in that domain i find READING about the girl seducing the guy hotter
     
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    Yeah, this gels with my experience IRL. Some guys like to dominate, but I know many more guys who like a seductive woman than guys who like dominating a woman into having sex.

    Unfortunately I also get the strong impression that women find it much hotter to be dominated than to seduce. Go figure
     
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    Animals seducing humans ftw.
     
  12. Falconer

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    I would agree with you on that.

    I think it's because guys are afraid of being "wrong." If a guy tries to dominate a woman into sex, there is a chance she could not want it. This could end with, at best, embarassment and, at worst, legal trouble.

    If the woman is seducing the guy, he knows she wants it.

    I know that's not the topic of your thread; I just thought I'd mention it cuz what you said there jived with what I thought.

    Agreed. I think it's more the "natural way of things."
     
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    x2 +1 ;D
     
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    This is 100% of my experience too. I have always been with guys who have the "woman seducing the man" fantasy and I am fine with that, getting fairly good at it by now. However, it's nice to switch it up, as in any repetitive exercise. I have no idea what it's like to be with a dominant male... I would like that some day. There are men like that out there, right.... right?!?!?!

    DA
     
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    Also, there is that pesky stigma about a guy who gets too forceful = rape = all kinds of trouble... I feel like guys don't like to push it, or even go there! It's totally understandable, just too bad that the stigma and the fear needs to exist in the first place:(
     
  17. Falconer

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    I'm assuming that was you agreeing with me.
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

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    I mean... I'm getting a lot better at the dominant thing. Maybe you can teach some guy. I believe you said you are turned off by the threat of a guy falling in love with you, but I'm sure you can still find someone who is around, long enough to show him a thing or two things.

    It might help not to shut him down when it isn't "convincing" enough for you. That might help to build his confidence which would lead to it being convincing.

    But yes there are guys out there who are dominant.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

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    I don't think legal trouble has a lot to do with what people fantasize about. That's why they are fantasies
     
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    This assumption would be correct :big grin:
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

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    update

    She started moving down my stomach, going really slowly with her tongue but stopped, looked up at me and held my gaze.

    "Why are you getting hard, John?" she said innocently. She waited. She started sucking the tip, for a second.

    "Don't you know I have to leave?" she teased. "If you get hard I have to stay."

    I didn't know what to say. I just went :eek3: and then :drool:

    We switch it up though. I guess I used to think it was either you were a dominant person or you were a submissive person or else you were apathetic and vanilla. The more stuff I do the more stuff I realize I like. I like to switch it up, they both turn me on.

    Actually, I find that the submissive fantasies I started out with have GREATLY helped me figure out how to enjoy being dominant: I just think about what I would like to be done to me in those fantasies and then enact that on the other person. :coolugh:
     

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