I can't believe that I'm going to write my thoughts out, but I am because they have been screaming at me for a while now and I know a lot of you can benefit from this. Don't waste time and hurt yourself in the process by micromanaging your personality, relationships, etc... when there you have much more important problems existing that need your attention. Seriously, it's gonna strike everyone as common sense, but even if you are a pimp and think you have everything taken care of, read that again. This goes for girls, business, networking, everything... Everyone, including myself fucks this up. Fundamentals, guys and girls. Examples: -Don't worry about openers/'pick-up lines' and bullshit like that when you have the confidence of a teenage boy sitting on the side during a dance. -Don't buy expensive clothes to look good when your hair makes your look like an extra from Napoleon Dynamite. -Don't worry about figuring out the proper transition from missionary to the reverse oompa loompa when you aren't sure which hole to put it in. -etc... Obviously kidding, but you get the idea. No one focuses on the fundamentals in anything except for the people that know what they're doing. Don't waste your time with the advanced stuff because it's not gonna have any effect and you're gonna come across as incongruent. Look at your big flaws and work on them every damn day. I'm beating a dead horse, but remember that you only live once and your life is wasting away one minute at a time. Put yourself out there and make yourself uncomfortable every fucking day. Do yourself a favor and read this over a few times and really try to take it in.