O.k., I have been married for eleven years now. When we were dating we used to have sex every night, cept. when she was OTR. Well....after marriage she starting saying no more and more often, she was tired, had a headache, stressed about work blah blah blah. Look, marriage is great if you are looking for a companion to spend the rest of life with and have some kids. But, if you want to continue to have an active sex life don't get married, just don't. Come up with reasons, any reasons, just say no to marriage. That is my fourth post and I hope it helps just one of you.