Well, my ex/bf/SO drove up 40 kms to see me last nite, just to have coffee. I appreciated the gesture, but he came unannounced and so i had things to do. I only spent a\5 minutes with him and then he drove home. I felt bad about it, but there was nothing i could do. Later that night he sent me a long email about how sad he was and how he missed me, etc. I was really tired so i didnt pay mich attention and i went to bed. Today he tells me he doesnt want to be with me anymore, and he went shopping with a "single" girl friend of his (he made sure to tell me she is single). He hates malls, and he spent 3 hours in the mall today. 1. Wth does this mean> why would he flaunt about going out with another girl ? 2. Does he want to get back together, or no?? so confused??