Guys, do you have the courage to ask out a total stranger?

Discussion in 'Archives' started by Dobolina, Mar 6, 2002.

  1. Dobolina

    Dobolina Guest

    And I don't mean when you're drunk off your ass in the club. I'm talkin about when you're out getting a piece of pizza or whatever and you happen to see a hottie walking towards you. Would you have the courage to ask her out (or try to get her phone number)?
     
  2. Guest

    Guest Guest

    yes

    why not? what's the worst they will say? no?

    live a little.
    don't be such a wuss.
     
  3. Fatghost28

    Fatghost28 Guest

    Yup. Done it many times, works pretty well too.
     
  4. Dobolina

    Dobolina Guest

    So you've done it then?

    How do you go about it?
     
  5. sonicyouth

    sonicyouth Guest

    I walked up to a girl one day who I thought I didn't have a chance with. I asked her if I could call her some time. We have been dating for 4+ years and will be getting engaged soon.

    So yes, of course it's possible.
     
  6. Dobolina

    Dobolina Guest

    Did you have a conversation first or did you just bluntly ask for her phone number?
     
  7. sonicyouth

    sonicyouth Guest

    I bluntly asked if I "could call her some time."

    All women appreciate honesty. I knew I'd be kicking myself if I didn't go for this girl, so my nuts dropped and I went for it. Greatest thing I ever did too.
     
  8. Dobolina

    Dobolina Guest

    Damn man, that's inspirational. I gotta go for it. :bigthumb:
     
  9. accord5gen

    accord5gen Guest

    if i had the go you pic, i'd post it...:bigthumb: congrats to you dude.
     
  10. Venkman

    Venkman Guest

    you the man
     
  11. you know me

    you know me OT where the douchbags play

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    Sure just talk to her first then say "Could I get your phone #" Or "May I call you some time?" Like was already said whats the worst that can happen?
     
  12. SiD Fresh

    SiD Fresh Guest

    Well that NO can really hurt your self confidence and etc. So I don't risk it, soi don't bother asking out strangers in the street.
     
  13. bighey

    bighey Lurking since 2001

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    I'd have to say no. It isn't that I'm intimidated buy a hottie, I just really don't talk to anyone I do not know. I'm kinda reserved like that. All of my friends either talked to me first or I was in a situation where I had to talk to them.
     
  14. poopies4u

    poopies4u Active Member

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    I don't have the balls to do that
     
  15. Aphoric

    Aphoric Guest

    As long as my wife is not with me!
     
  16. sonicyouth

    sonicyouth Guest

    Thanks :)
     
  17. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :sad2: i totally regret not asking out this guy that was a hottie that i saw at my work. i could've easily gone over there and asked him if he needed any help and then just started a little conversation with him. i'm not shy, but i think the reason why i didn't approach him is because he was with a another guy. that's what i think made me scared. :(
     
  18. Dobolina

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    I've never seen a girl ask out a guy....which is a shame since most guys would say yes.
     
  19. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :sad2: ***note to self*** ;) thanks!
     
  20. Guest

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    Seriously, I think being asked out by a woman is one of the biggest turn-ons.
     
  21. bahhhhhh

    bahhhhhh Guest

    go for it, it cant hurt anyhting unless she happens to be your ex g/f's sister. ;)



    (btw, then your screwed)
     
  22. ChelleBelle82

    ChelleBelle82 What the FRENCH? Toast

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    I've never had the courage to just approach some stranger. I just don't know how to go about talking to them. If I could think of something to say I'd be up for it. Although I could use "Nice teeth, wanna fuck? " :big grin: Yes I know most people say shoes.
     
  23. PrettyLush5

    PrettyLush5 red sky at night

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    I don't usually do stuff like that...but if I saw a guy like in a neutral place (for example, a friend's house) I would have no problem going up and talking to him.
     
  24. Eticket109

    Eticket109 Nibbles, chew through my ball sack. Moderator

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    I have, got shot down and lived to tell about it.
     
  25. accord5gen

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    girls def need to ask guys out more often, fuck that "it's the guy's job" bullshit......why can't a girl ask a guy out??
     

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