Guys: could you pick up your SO?

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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Cold approach ---to--> Sex, is a very specific skillset... most people use social circle game to get laid, since it requires less work and can happen more "naturally" (i.e. without thinking as much about it).

    If you saw your current SO in a bar. Could you pick her up? If you go out at night, are the girls that you can get ~ as hot as your SO is??

    I'll go first...

    When I met her? Yeah, probably.
    Now? I don't think so. I'm rusty... :noes:
     
  2. antihero

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    I think you need to be a bit more specific.

    Can i pick up and number close a girl of equal or greater hotness? then get a date? sure. peice of cake.

    Can I pick up and same night fclose one? probably not, would take a bit of luck.

    Can I -find- a girl of equal or greater hotness and coolness and funness? no. :hs:
     
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  3. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Ok, the revised question.

    Can you currently, in practice, pick up and get a date with someone of equal to or greater hotness than your SO in a night game context (e.g. club, bar)?
     
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    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    that happened to my last g/f. could pick her up at first, she gained too much weight so I dropped her
     
  5. Kreigore

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    I don't know about picking a chick up better than my ex in a bar or club.

    But I could pick her up hanging out with her friends in a group in a casual atmosphere. That's how I met her in the first place. I knew a distant friend of hers, I hung out with her friends, then met her.

    I find it hard to pick up a "nice girl" in a bar or dance club. So, could I pick my ex or greater in a bar or similar atmosphere? Probably not, but I would try. :mamoru:
     
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    i couldn't :hsd:
     
  7. Durka Durka

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    literally? why were you carrying her ass anywhere? let that bitch walk.
     
  8. Durka Durka

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    as for the question, relating to my ex...

    could i pick her up cold? yes. could any other guy? yeah pretty much.
     
  9. Hunt

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    :squint::rofl:
     
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    We recently broke up, but she was my SO for 6 years. When we first met.. yeah I could have def. picked her up.

    Now, after being broken up for 2 months she tells me she is starting to have feelings for me again.... So apparently I do still have what it takes to pick her up or at least get her interested.

    But had we not dated for so long and if we didn't love one another I am not so sure I could pick her up randomly in a bar/club at this point. In fact, I am pretty sure I couldn't. Not without REALLY working at it at least. Maybe if I met her in class or in the library I would have a good chance though.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :mamoru: I've thought about this. My boyfriend had it very easy with me. Our mutual friend told us to go on a date because we were both on the rebound. We had at least seen each other and thought the other was attractive. So we went on a date, then another....year later we're still together; we just clicked.

    The funny thing is his friends all joke that he has no game, and probably would never of had the balls to approach me unknowningly at a bar or something like that.
     
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    My last one, I don't know. She actually picked ME up lol.
     
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    knowing what i know about her now? definetely
    assuming i didnt know her (reality), i'm pretty sure. we're very compatible.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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