I used to work with this guy, and we hooked up once. After that, I realized it was a mistake - he'd constantly talk to me about sex and wanted to "get off" on the phone. It grossed me out. So anyways, I just ignored him, and still do. You might say, oh, why don't you just tell him you're clearly not interested? I could do the mature thing, but it seems almost funny to me that - six months later - he's still calling me at least a few times a week, sometimes over and over. I've never come across such a desperate guy. Have you had similar experiences where a guy just DOESN'T get the message? Do you think I'm being oh-so-cruel? By the way I don't fear for my life or anything like that. I'm not going to call the cops or worry about this. I'm just curious to know what y'all think. Sometimes after a guy hooks up with a girl, HE ignores her, and she's expected to get the message. So I can't feel sorry for this guy.