Guy is surprised that his gf of 7 years wants a baby

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  1. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3394667

    I mean, come on, after 7 years together, what does he expect?

    Edit to explain relevance to the Vag:

    This is a lesson for guys if you don't get it already. If you stay in a relationship with a woman long enough, she will continually expect more and more commitment from it. Lauren or Iwishyouwerebeer is always saying that she doesn't get why a girl would be in a relationship over 3 years if she wasn't engaged or married (at least, I think it was something like that). This guy's girl wants to have a baby, but he seems like it is unexpected.

    So...moral of the story...don't expect to be able to stay in a relationship for years and have it stay the same.
     
  2. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Her wanting a baby isnt the problem, its the way shes going about it. Thats something u should sit down and have a long discussion with your partner about, not something u make "accidently" by not using a condom
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I didn't read because all I could think about after reading the title was "why the fuck do people stay in relationships that long that are obviously going nowhere, yet they keep begging for more commitment!"
     
  4. fray

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    I don't think this is true - well, the 'staying the same part is' but what you had said in the other thread about biological clocks, basically. I don't think that all women feel compelled to have children or that he should expect such out of her. I could see me saying the same thing to my bf, just to fuck with him, because he knows that I do not want children. Of course, if I said that, I would definitely be on birth control, because I really don't want children. I have no idea what her motives were, but he said she doesn't like children. :dunno:
     
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    yeh. that wasn't me. at all. :o
     
  6. MattThom01

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    I guess I should have made it clearer. I mean that there is a strong biological predisposition for women to want to have children.
     
  7. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    in todays society marriage/kids has nothing to do with commitment. that's not why girls push for those things.
     
  8. MattThom01

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    I dunno. I guess it just didn't surprise me to see that the guy's gf wanted a baby after 7 years.
     
  9. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Agree...:wiggle:
     
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    That's exactly what I thought also.
     
  11. antihero

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    "going nowhere" is just such a uniquely female situation.
     
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    where exactly are they supposed to "go" ..albuquerque? I made a wrong turn there once.
     
  13. fray

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    It did me, just because he said she didn't like kids. But maybe he is just under the wrong impression. I thought more just blatant disregard for whether she got pregnant, so she could enjoy the moment. Still not a great situation!
     
  14. lauren

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    exactly :rofl:
     
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    RageUnleashed New Member

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    She should've wanted to get married THEN talk about having a kid.

    I could see myself having a gf for that long and not wanting to get married, move in, or having kids, but I'm sure most people would want change.
     
  16. BradUF

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    Why the fuck are they not married.
     
  17. danewreed

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    most women goal IMO seems to be to have a baby, regardless of relationship status.
     
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    I wouldnt say thats an accident...
     
  19. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    :rofl::rofl:
     
  20. BradUF

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    She poked holes in the condom!
     
  21. Durka Durka

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    :werd:

    greedy, needy, hyperactive whores ftl
     
  22. sportsjunkie

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    where are relationships suppose to go exactly?

    marriage? not everyone believes in marriage nor does everyone need a legal document stating their status as a couple.
     
  23. lauren

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    hush. she's in the planning phase, and cannot be reasoned with.
     
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    lolz
    :mamoru:
     
  25. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    It does way more then state status.
     

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