guy doesnt want to cum: loss of testosterone

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  1. EuroBella

    EuroBella New Member

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    The guy I'm seeing is a gym fanatic, and he believes that by not cumming he retains more testosterone in his system and that it makes him have better/more productive work outs. We'll still have sex, but he'll hardly ever cum, and he does this on purpose.

    Does ejaculation make testosterone levels in the body fluctuate enough to affect physical performance at the gym?

    Thanks to anyone who can give any insight. I've never been with a guy who didn't want to cum!
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    what a fag
     
  3. EuroBella

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    Hahaha... That's definitely not the problem. In fact, his problem is that he can't hold back most of the time and cums anyways. But he still thinks it makes him more girly/weak to give it up.
     
  4. Phil NJ

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    When you ejaculate, you'll test levels will go down a little. But its only temparary.
     
  5. EuroBella

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    Thanks for an actual response. Yeah, I figure it goes down somewhat, but the body would just create more to replace it. Somehow he's been lead to believe that storing it all will increase levels. I would think that the body would like to keep test. levels fairly stable.
     
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    It's not going to increase his test levels at all. Just tell him he's a fool.
     
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    pretty much.
     
  8. EuroBella

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    I told him the whole thing was stupid and he's missing out. I like when my guy gets off because of me, and I hate that he's trying to block it.

    He can't always keep it in but he puts up a fight, though. Good thing I have skills;)
     
  9. JordanClarkson

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    I have to admire his will power. or he might be gay :rofl:
     
  10. CrazyFoool

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    if he thinks he's weak and girly for coming. i believe it is something beyond that...he has problems not being in control and needs to dominate. honestly, you should seriously ask if he's bisexual or have those thoughts. i'm not trollling.
     
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  12. CrazyFoool

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    whats up w/ the quote under your name?
     
  13. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Yeah tell him it makes fuck all difference. Really, I doubt it'd change your performance in the gym and the gains you make by even 1%.

    However, him having got it in his head like this could change his performance, but it'd be a mind thing not a body thing. Just tell him to get over it.
     
  14. Omegaboy

    Omegaboy Scuzzy Psychout Merchant OT Supporter

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    infact, the body does everything it can to be stable...even if it WAS keeping the testosterone up...the body would pump oestrogen to compensate.

    Besdies...unless he's got a real health problem...who needs to be that fit...seriously!?
     
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    Even if he didn't have sex or masturbate occasionally, he'd still cum every so often. The normal male body continuously produces semen, and can only store much....that's why when guys don't have sex or masturbate, they have wet dreams.

    basically, he's misinformed.
     
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    yah uh if I were him I wouldnt cum until after my workout because I dont work out as hard or as intense if I masturbate or get play before my workouts versus after.
     
  17. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    It's just about all in your head.

    Unless of course you just had a session like right before going to the gym so you were already tired before you got there.
     
  18. Abomb

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    I dunno dude. When I orgasm and release my work outs arent at the intensity level I want them at. Gotta push yourself to the limit to get bigger after your newb gains are over *shrug*
     
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    depends on how ripped he is?
     
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    Total BS. The levels drop for maybe 30 minutes. If he is so caught up on that, tell them to work out in the morning when levels are at their highest of the day...not like it'll make much of a difference.
     
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    He's crazy. I wouldn't want to go out there with blue balls. He's broken, return him and get a new one.
     
  22. Riot

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    he's right, there was a study posted in the fitness and nutrition forums a long time ago, where your test levels would raise if you didn't ejaculate for like 2 weeks or something.

    but it still wouldn't make that big of a difference.
     
  23. affende

    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    the short answer is "no"

    the longer answer is "nope"

    it does not affect his performance.
     
  24. EuroBella

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    If I could use the search function I'd look up that thread if it's still around.

    CrazyFoool: He's definitely not gay or bisexual, he's quite the manly man, which might explain the control/power thing.

    k0in b4hd: He's definitely ripped. Though I'm not sure why that would make a difference to this situation.

    Thanks for the insight, guys.
     
  25. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Its give or take.

    I'm in the gym 2 times a day and i do find that after sex for about 3 days i'm below par.

    then again too much testosterone is bad too and if i go to long without i perform badly aswell.

    its good to find the nice medium.

    I like to not have a intense ejaculation 1-2 days before a hard workout or 1 week before a fight but i find a light ejaculation (maintenance) 1-2 days prior to competition helps me relax alot durring the fight.
     

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