Here’s my dilemma... I have two guys that are absolutely retarded for me, and I don’t wanna hurt either one of them. I have been talking to guy A since shortly after my fiancé passed away in April of this year, and have been in a relationship with him for about 3 weeks now. I have known guy B for over a month, but only found out a few days ago how truly in “love” he is with me. Guy A knows about guy B, but guy B doesn’t know about guy A. Although I can’t see myself actually dating guy B, he's so sweet and I just can’t bare the though of telling him about guy A, and crushing him into a million pieces. On top of that, I have overwhelming feelings of guilt about already being in a relationship with guy A since my fiancé has only been dead for 3 months and some change. Those feelings of guilt are pushing me to want to step back from guy A for awhile, just so I can get my head back on straight and figure out what I want in my life right now, but I really like him and I don’t wanna risk loosing him completely! I’m Uber confused, and I need your opinion about what I should do with all this.