Hiya Vag I've come to the conclusion that I've got to get out of my relationship. I just don't think I'm happy. I'm not sure when it happened, but I stopped enjoying myself a while ago. I tried to wait it out to see if it was outside things stressing me out, but I think the relationship is the source of the stress. We've been dating for about 5 months. I've never dumped someone before, and i'm worried it's going to hurt her. She's really a great girl, I just can't do the whole dating thing right now. Any tips on what to tell her so she takes it as well as she can, while still making sure I'm not too nice and make her think I just need space. There are all sorts of things making me feel guilty, but my friends all agree I should end it. I think it's what i should do, what I want to do, and what I need to do. It's still hard though.