Since I broke up with my last girlfriend back in October I haven't really cared too much about dating up until about 2 or 3 weeks ago. Anyway, so I decided I would try the online thing. Found this girl that seems really cool. We sent some messages back and forth, I told her I would like to hang out some time. Anyway, she gave me her number and told me to give her a call. I sent her a message back telling her I would give her a call sometime during the following week. But that was last week (Jan 22-28). I got really busy and forgot about it. I still want to call her but I'm always afraid to call girls for the first time. Today I pulled out my phone, dialed her number and just couldn't convince myself to hit the send button. My adrenaline was pumping and it seemed like I could barely breathe. Are there any kinds of things I can go through mentally to convince myself that it really isn't that bad? I mean, I tell myself that before I call, but when I pull out the phone I sieze up and just can't do it. Any ideas/suggestions?