Got a dilemma between two female friends

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  1. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    I met girl A a year ago and we became good friends (IMO) but it's obvious she wants more than a friendship. girl B is girl A''s best friend that I just met recently and she is absolutely beautiful. i tried asking her out and she got all happy and excited but doesn't know what to do since her best friend really, really likes me. she's scared that she doesn't want to hurt her friends feelings.


    what would you guys do in my position? girl B is just wayyy to shy to say anything to her friend.
     
  2. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Sounds like you got yourself in a shithole, for now just hold off in my opinion until girl B says something or her friend says she's over it?
     
  3. jdogsvilla

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    If girl B is into you and you want to be with her, then you must be prepared to end your friendship with girl A and potentially break their friendship as well. That is a worst case scenario. It's actually all a ratio between her desire for you and the closeness between the two girls. If the bond between the 2 girls is stronger than her affinity for you then you may have a chance with girl B while keeping the friendships in tact. Alot of it will depend on how you bring this up to girl A. I suggest you personally telling her that you like girl B, but want to remain good friends with girl A if that's at all possible. If girl B is the one to confront her best friend about this, it will feel like a stab in the back from her best friend. Just tell girl A how you feel and everything will work itself out. Good luck. Just my 2 noob cents.
     
  4. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Yea either way 1 is going to be pissed now =\ So let them decide who gets you <laugh> or keep it as being friends
     
  5. BTA

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    Well, all I can say is that the more you turn down girl A the more she will want you.

    So basically I am no help at all.
     
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    I highly doubt that girl A will want you even more if she knows that you are turning her down for her best friend. If that does happen though, I got 2 words for ya: THREE SUM :bigok:
     
  7. BedBunny

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    you watch too much porn :rolleyes:
     
  8. BiffHenderson

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    That's a really rought situation. I'm not sure if there's a good outcome to this at all.
     
  9. chica&buddies

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    :eek3: not too bad for a noob... well done, i concur :)

    i strongly suggest that you tell girl A your feelings about girl B as well. :hs: if you've been friends for a long time, you should be able to talk about pretty much anything.
     

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