Do any of you have good introductory messages to send to someone your interested in, on a dating website ? Or even any tips ? Such as not coming off too strong, or needy ? I personally feel that by sending the first message, I kinda give my power away. The girl knows that I'm interested in her and there's no chase anymore, so loses interest. Of course I understand that there may also be many others factors due to which she may have chosen not to respond back.