gonna have sex for the first time this weekend...

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  1. citizen erased

    citizen erased jailbait tested, milf approved

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    i need some help picking out the right condoms for me, i'm overwhelmed. :hs:
     
  2. IslanderOffRoad

    IslanderOffRoad Do you even lift kit? OT Supporter

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    well what are you looking for?

    most pleasure?
    lubricant?
    performance enhancing for the 2 pump chump?
    cheapest?
    funny?
     
  3. citizen erased

    citizen erased jailbait tested, milf approved

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    i dont know, whats a good starter condom that won't break?
     
  4. ISO9002

    ISO9002 New Member

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    Go with the one with more sperm killing lubricant...
     
  5. ImDrunkAgain

    ImDrunkAgain Resident Mental Health Counselor

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    Durex and Trojans have always been good to me... depending on your size, you might wanna try:
    For Her Pleasure
    Sensitive
    Dual Pleasure
    or the kind that help you hold out for a lil while longer (so you dont cum too soon)
     
  6. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    When I was in high school I used Trojan ENZ. I never got anyone pregnant. Basically any brand will do as long as it:

    Is latex (not lambskin)
    Has nonoxynol-9 spermicide inside AND out
    Has a reservoir tip

    Have fun and be careful mofo.
     
  7. Scott7

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    Use Trojan Exta thick if your really afraid of breaking...I just use Trojan ultra ribbed...meh
     
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    Mexican_Pirate New Member

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    You're going to have sex for the first time? Lucky bastard.
     
  9. spete

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    planned sex eh, hmmm
     
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    wish my first time was a lil more planned.... mine was me drunk, no condom. wasn't the smartest move. but oh well. she was reliably on the pill. no babies.

    what i would suggest... go to planned parenthood. get a variety pack of condoms (they're free if you're poor) and try them on. watch some porn, roll a condom on. see how it fits. how you like it. different condoms for different guys. i remember reading ribbed condoms smooth out usualy (the classically ribbed by folded latex kind) after a bit of sex, but ones like the pleasure mesh dont (more like a cross hatching pattern). honestly, the condom isn't what makes the sex good, it's the guy. i would suggest just reading up alot on the subject and taking it easy. dont get too nervous. jack off the day before, you'll be good for the next day. build up alot of foreplay, lotta kissing, alotta rubbing and grinding. when the clothes come off kiss all over, pay attention to the nipples but dont stay there or focus on them. kiss all over the stomach, inner thighs. tease ALOT. make her beg for it.

    when you put on the condom, check which way it's suppose ot go. if you put it on backwards and can't roll it down... throw it away. i wouldn't risk have semen on the outside. '

    good luck, have fun!
     
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    Get the flavored kind.
     
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    pctony Alyson > *

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    ultra pleasure trojans
     
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    i dunno about the flavored kind, my friend had a really bad reaction to them and got pretty nasty down there. and mentioning that... make sure she has no latex allergy. if on the offchance she does... get polyurethane condoms. be careful with them though, they're safe, but have a tendancy to break because they're less pliable.
     
  14. Original

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    Just what I was thinking :o

    All the good condoms are listed, but if you're going to use lube, don't pull something from the cupboards that is oil-based (baby oil, vasoline, etc.) These will disintegrate the latex :hs: .. Get something water based like KY Jelly

    Who knows, hopefully she'll be wet as hell :hsugh:

    Good Luck.
     
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    i would have to say that trojan warm sensation feels the best for me
     
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    i made the same mistake as him, and when i went to go deal with it, well lets say i diddint preform as well as i wanted. Got really really imberassed when i went limp and i couldent figure out why. I was way to stressed and worried. so when you do it, make shure you relax and take it as it goes. dont expect yourself to be perfect.
     
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    can also cause non-needed malfunctions and extrem embarassment
     
  18. TNFlyBoy

    TNFlyBoy F =/= ma?? wtf??

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    i wouldn't worry too much about getting the non-9 condoms, i read somewhere (consumer reports online or something like that) that non-9 doesn't affect the failure rate of condoms, you've just gotta use em properly
     
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    I never planned this shit. Sometimes I wonder.... Did I just not put enough thought into things, or does everyone else just overthink it? You like the person, one thing leads to another, and when the time is right, it happens. What's with this planning???

    :nikko:
     
  20. Shahrum

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    Yeah... I know what you mean. Don't go with anything that has climax control lube in it.
     
  21. Sunnyday

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    I'd avoid anything coloured, flavoured, ribbed or bumped. Plain old fashioned condoms are best. Try to relax. Practice putting the condom on first. Nothing is a passion killer like fumbling around!

    Enjoy it, it will be the best 30 seconds of your life :p
     
  22. Shahrum

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    I'm assuming when you say "sex" you mean vaginal intercourse. My very first time having vaginal intercourse lasted I'd say a good half hour if not more. No, I didn't masturbate right before hand or anything (altho that can help a bit if you do it a few hours before hand), but I had done so many sexual things with my girlfriend for almost a year before we actually had sex sex; i.e. blow jobs, anal sex, etc. Experience is key, and so is knowing and understanding your body! Read up! :)
     
  23. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    Maybe im just an old guy... but i still cant get over the fact that most young couples do anal before vanginal these days.

    Blows my mind.
     
  24. Shahrum

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    Yeah, it is a bit crazy! But some people believe in "waiting until they're ready" :rolleyes: :mb:

    (lol, my girlfriend's gonna hurt me now lol)
     
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    Sheeeesh......... just use a wabbit skin and tie it off with a bungee cord.
     

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