When encountering the situation where you want to do something, but at the same time it's against or at least not what you believe in, which should you choose? If I want to get into a relationship, but there are so many factors going against it, what should I do? In more detail, the girl who I like and likes me back wants us to be couples. However, we're both leaving for college in a few months, 10 hours driving distance away, and the distance isn't the only issue. I've never been with a girl before, and this would be a big decision for me to make. On top of that, the parents acceptance issue will arise too, since she is not of Christian faith which my family is. Also, I never imagined myself getting in a serious relationship this early on in my life, since I always believed that there were higher priorities to deal with first. How do you weigh the consequences of each, or should you not and just go with your feelings? Should I not think too much about the future and just go for it because I care about her and that's all that matters?