Hi there people, I think I need some advice here. So here's the story. I met a girl online, via a chat program called Skype. It's very nice and all, but then she asked me to come visit her. And she was serious about it. But there's just one small problem... I live in Holland, and she lives in Beijing, China. That's like the other side of the world.. But I actually started working and I've already earned enough money for the trip. But my friends and some people around me tell me that I really should think it over and that I must be very carefull. Of course they're right.. after all we met on the internet and we don't "really" know eachother... and most of all, she can't be trusted. And on top of that, I don't know the country. It's a whole different culture and I don't speak a word Chinese.. well Ni Hao, and that's it. So she told me that she would stay at my side at all time. She also told me that I could stay at her place, which is a relief because I can't possibly pay for a hotel. And I'm planning to stay there for two weeks. Right now I'm really serious about meeting her and I'm willing to take the risks. I've planned to visit her next year in the summer holiday since we're both still in high school. So I was just wondering what you guys think about this. Should I take the risks? Maybe any of you got some tips for me?