Going on a date for the first time in 4 years...

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  1. Jeff Merr

    Jeff Merr Elite Member

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    Was in a 4 year relationship, got out of that a few months ago.

    So i feel like i know absolutely nothing, considering my last relationship - this means i havn't dated since high school, pretty scary. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated. Will probably go to dinner and maybe a drink afterwords. This girl is super cute and seems right up my ally so i really don't want to fuck this up.
     
  2. Falconer

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    Sweet dude I know how you feel. I'm not a serial dater, either (everyone I date seems to become a gf, wtf! (knock on wood)). Good luck.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    DON'T talk about your ex. Other than that, good luck!
     
  4. demosnat

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    mother fucking dot.
     
  5. Falconer

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    Oh yeah, dot on that ^
     
  6. LS Boy

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    just be yourself.

    eye contact, and ask her questions......it will open her up more and sooner you two become comfortable around each other.



    did it the last few months.... i gave up on her saturday though. i wanted relationship, she doesnt.
     
  7. VashTheStampede

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    Be confident, and not cocky. Oh, and be a gentleman and open doors for her.
     
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    Xtreme2k2 GTI Crew ಠ_ಠ OT Supporter

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  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    so, how did it go?
     
  10. Spiritus

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    I got out of a 2 year. I hope I get a new one soon (one that isn't absoloutely out of her mind).
     
  11. BradUF

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    Make sure you sexor at the 3rd date.
     
  12. Yail Bloor

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    dinner, wow, that's very imaginative

    i'm sure it will be a night she will never forget
     
  13. Yail Bloor

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    This is a recipe for failure.

    You can't think this way and have success in dating.

    Trying "not to fuck this up" is a sure way to fuck it up.

    Additionally, you have now inflated her value in your mind while devaluing your own worth. So you are much more prone to act out of neediness and desperation. And nothing turns a woman off quicker than neediness and desperation.
     
  14. antihero

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    you would really use a really cool original date on a first date?

    it generally isnt necesary imho. If the girl likes you at all, the first date will have her so giddy, you really don't need to do much to the energy level.
     
  15. Placebo

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    "Everything goes back to self-respect."
     
  16. Nev

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    fixed.

    females love to talk...don't ask her questions she can answer with yes/no.
     
  17. BradUF

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    When I was at the indoor pistol range some dude that was not a hick took a girl to go shoot a pistol for the first time.
     
  18. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    I took my girl to shoot at a range and she loved it. She said one of the greatest times she has had.

    It was something that she has never done and probably wouldn't of done it unless i asked her to go!
     
  19. BradUF

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    The last girl that I dated said she hated guns...
     
  20. timberwolf

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    He can always masturbate before the date. Twice for good measure.;)

    Do you really think you have to be original/ imaginative on a first date??


    Good luck Jeff.
     
  21. konrad109

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    Fixed.
     
  22. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    ^ SO TRUE! Just remember to make sure you don't have any on your shorts/pants!
     
  23. Yail Bloor

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    I don't think its necessary, but I hate doing all the cliched bullshit that every other man does, so I stay away from it.

    I think masturbating before a date is a horrible idea. You want to be able to get into a sexual state with her.
     
  24. timberwolf

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    Well... I was for the most part kidding about the masturbating.
    On the other hand, if he finds her hot enough, she should still be able to arouse him whether he's masturbated or not. Its not like he's middle aged or something.
     
  25. Yail Bloor

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    Ouch, that last part hit close to home :o
     

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