ive been recently dating this girl and we regularly have sex. at first it was good, lasted atelast 30 minutes a go, very good, obviously we both enjoyed it. one nite we were having sex i finished, and i look down and the condom is completely broken. i freak out. oddly enough she had her period a week later and shes not preagnant. ever since then tho, i have ahd a hard time staying aroused during sex. like well be doing it, well switch positions, and ill check the condom and ill worry so much that it just goes limp and then i have no urge to jhave sex. my gf says she understands but it frustrates me. i feel so hroribly embaressed cause a 19 yr old male should have more control than that. and since the condom incident, when i do stay up, i go real fast, way faster than usual. im very frustrated. any advice or words of wisdom? thanks.