So I met this guy I've been crushing on a bit. He works in the same department as one of my friends. She made a comment yesterday that he's quiet as a church mouse 8 hours a day 5 days a week that she's around him up until I'm around and he talks non stop... He sat with me at a party and talked to me most of the time and asked me to go to lunch with them the next day since I work down there too. My friend thinks he's got a thing for me too but after talking to her I'm a bit hesitant. I'm not sure which way, or how to work this or if I should at all... She told me that apparently he has had a girlfriend for the last 4 years or something but she moved about 3 hours away and actually bought a house there. She also said that she knows he has no desire or intention to move away and be there with her. I'm thinking... on one hand they've been together for awhile and how do you just drop that... but the other hand...how serious can it be if she bought a house 3 hours away and he doesn't want to be with her? I would think that after that many years together you would either be in it or out of it... My friends say give it a shot. Maybe he's just comfortable where he is and a catalyst would help him end a dead relationship.