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  1. dark cloud

    dark cloud New Member

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    When you give your number to a guy, do you expect him to call you or not? Like if you've just met a guy for like 5 or 10 minutes and he got your contact or if you've crossed eachother at a party a couple times and he got it. I'm not talking about a guy you've been chatting with a a party for 3 hours or whatever. Also, if you do expect it, how long before you start to think he won't call you? I'm curious as to the responses.
     
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    i'd give it a few days if anything, after that he's probably not going to call.
     
  3. Ghostaz0r

    Ghostaz0r With my ego, I can stand there in a Speedo, and be

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    im singing the beastie boys song.
     
  4. ProneToEpisodes

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    How old are you? Beleive it or not that makes a difference.... Did you ask for the girls number? Or did she just give it to you and say call me? I would say wait a couple days call once and leave a message exp if its a cell phone. Most have caller ID and you dont want to look like a stalker.... Anyways call her and ask her to dinner or something fun :)
     
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    I think the original poster is female.
     
  6. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    No, not really. I don't "expect" anything from the opposite sex. I would say after a few days I should stop waiting for a call.
     
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    Chrissy dnb doll

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  8. dark cloud

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    18, it's not a specific case, i'm just wondering in general. I meet alot of women (in college) and sometimes i'll call after 2 or 3 days, sometimes a week, sometimes the next day. Sometimes it's just a girl thats sitting down and I make a comment and we start talking and I tell her she should give me her number. Sometimes it's a girl I sit next to in class and speak to alot. I'm just wondering if you have a personal preference and what goes on in your head when a guy who seems interested waits a few days before he calls.
     
  9. dark cloud

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    :rofl: Christ, do I really put out that aura? I'm a guy.
     
  10. dark cloud

    dark cloud New Member

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    What do you think if he just calls you out of the blue after like 5 days? Are you any less interested? Does he become a challenge?
     
  11. JohNny T

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    don't expect anything.... i'm a guy so...usually i get the numbers, lol... if anything I call them once to see if they even remember me.... most of the parties I go to everyone is drunk off their ass by 12AM, lol so getting a number doesn't REALLY mean anything at those parties.....

    give it a few days if nothing happens, nothing prob will happen...
     
  12. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Umm, this is all my personal opinion, but I think 5 days is too long. I would wait three. Wel... I dont call. But after I have given my # to a guy, I usually forget about them after 3 days. Then if they call it is like, WTF? Who are you?
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Umm, this is all my personal opinion, but I think 5 days is too long. I would wait three. Wel... I dont call. But after I have given my # to a guy, I usually forget about them after 3 days. Then if they call it is like, WTF? Who are you?
     
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    i dont give my number out. if in the rare chance i do, yes, i expect him to call within the week.

    but i think ive given my number out all of 3 times over the course of 8 years of dating...
     
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    DesignerAddic71 RIP Luther Vandross 1951-2005

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    same here. after a few days i wont remember who the hell you are!
     
  16. ProneToEpisodes

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    If you ask for her number that means you re telling her you are going to call with in a few days. Dont be a weird guy who asks for a number and then calls in 2 weeks or more...
     
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    Yeah I agree. If I don't get a phone call from a guy after a few days I think that pretty much says he's not interested.
     
  18. dark cloud

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    Ok, thanks for the input.
     
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    i really could care less if the guy called or not... if i wanted the guy's number, i would ask myself.

    :dunno: it depends on the surroundings, too. guys play games (now boys... don't pretend you don't :nono: ), and if i'm out at a bar and a guy asks me for my number, i'll be somewhat of a tease (don't get me wrong... i ONLY play off what the guy gives me to work with), but i will give out my correct phone number if he asks.

    now... am i hoping that he calls? honestly... it's not that big of a deal to me :hs: and most of the time i don't remember until after the fact (meaning they've called...).
     
  20. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    I hope you spontaneously combust for that.
     
  21. dark cloud

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    I should have figured this kind of response from you though. You seem really lax and don't seem to care what happends. I should have asked, "what do normal girls expect." ;)
     
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    instead of thinking pessimistically, that if you call the next day youre a "stalker" how about thinking positive that if u call the next day, you really dig her ! yeh sure maybe some girls may perceive such an immediete response as stalking, if so...THEIR LOSS! and then you blatently mutter under your breath..."next please!"
     
  23. dark cloud

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    But the problem is the majority of girls do perceive it as stalker. The fact that you really dig a girl after chatting with her for 10 minutes scares the shit out of them.
     

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