girls who turn to porn

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  1. registeredPORK

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    So recently I just found out that my SO's ex has done preggo porn and it's been posted on the web and been discussed about. I can agree that it is her prerogative and she may do as she wishes but...

    I don't see, comprehend, understand (whatever you want to call it), why anyone who is pregnant would quit the only job that they have because they're pregnant and then turn to porn for some sort of unstable income.

    From what I can gather (she talks to me from time to time, and yes, we were friends before she and my SO were dating), none of her other friends really care about her anymore, she's going through the steps to get welfare, wic, and government help.

    I don't really have a problem with someone needing help from the government to help them get on their feet, especially if they're a new mother and with no father in the picture, but I can't say that I do condone someone taking advantage of the system, and using it because they were irresponsible in the first place.

    But I guess through all that junk of a mess that I was talking about, how can you really turn to porn for income? There are other ways, aren't there?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I can't understad or imagine it either, the same way I feel sad for any young girl who gets into porn and swears she totally loves it and nothing is wrong.

    Anyway, I loathe people who use the system. Yes, there are of course many other jobs she could get but I'm guessing she's lazy and wants a quick source of money. It's not really your place to scold her obviously, but have you ever even shared your feelings on what she is doing? That way you could talk to her about other things she could do with her life.

    I'm more angry that she seems to be a single mom who will be raising her child into the world that way :squint:
     
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    I haven't really brought up the point that I've seen some preggo porn (and other various types) of her, because I find it a bit insensitive. I guess I'm just wondering how I can bring it up without any hurt feelings. I understand it isn't my place to scold her about it, she's a grown woman and can make her own judgments in life but I feel the need to give her friendly advice.

    I think the real thing that I'm upset about is that she's been sexually irresponsible in the beginning, had a somewhat incestuous relationship (with someone in her adopted family) and seem to be all right with it all. I can't imagine a person like her raising a child or bringing one into the world.

    Some people might say that this will definitely give her major responsibility and be good for her but to me, I feel like the kid is going to grow up in a really weird and somewhat hostile environment whether its emotional, or mental.

    And I have no problem with fetishes, as some people feel like doing porn is a form of being an exhibitionist but... I can see it ruining someone's life as well and I suppose I really don't want to see her life ruined like that.

    Hell, from what I've heard (no, I haven't tried this), you can find her by typing in her aim name, or her email address.

    Porn is a dangerous thing...
     
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    easy easy easy cash and a set of ethical guidelines very different from your own.
     
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    Where can I find her vids?
     
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    Why are you talking to/why do you care about your SO's ex?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She said they were friends before her SO.

    I think her point is in general she can't understand why any single woman would bring a baby into the world while she is doing pregnant porn and trying to get on welfare.
     
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    energie I like to place an order.. the name? Situation the

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    because she's trying to find anyway to make money to raise and support her child so it has a good life

    /thread
     
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    links??
     
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    I wishyouwerebeer is correct.

    She and I were friends before my SO and I were going out, so of course I would still talk to her.

    Even though she's trying to find a way to support her child, then why quit the job that she did have while being pregnant to just get on welfare and do porn?

    I would think doing porn while pregnant is demeaning and really isn't something that you can truly support yourself and your child on.

    Maybe Johnjohn is right... just moral/ethical differences.
     
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    I would imagine internet fetish porn actors/stars/whatever could actually rake in a boatload of cash in a very short amount of time. The fetish being with pregnant women, I don't see the draw but a lot of guys like weirder shit then that. My point is I bet you'll be surprised at how much $ she takes in.
     
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    porn is one of those things that, even if it would make me a millionaire, i would never do it.
     
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    A lot of women are money grubbing whores.

    Porn is a quick way to make large sums of money.

    So, all women who cant land a single rich man to dig on that have the money grubbing whore gene will turn to porn.
     
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    Well that was a dumb move. It's possible that being pregnant itself with all the chaos of hormones involved made her stop thinking straight.

    But as to why a girl would turn to porn, it's very good money. She can work 2 days and make as much as she would working a month at a regular job.

    Other general reasons why girls get into porn--

    lack of friends is a big one, like your friend has problems with. a girl who's alone may feel she's got nothing to offer the world except for the obvious which is her body. she has no friends to make her feel ashamed of it. she makes friends in the industry and those are the only ones she'll have. it's sad but many porn actresses go to bed alone at night.

    sex addiction. some girls love sex so much so they figure why not get paid for it.

    std infection. they get one and think they are dirty for life, even if it gets cleared up. they might have syphilis, hepatitis, or herpes which you aren't required to be screened for in porn. so if she has an std she could think "i might as well do porn..."

    low self esteem from promiscuity. they want to get paid to feel better about it.

    low education - most girls in the industry are very poorly educated. most are hs dropouts who stopped paying attention after 6th grade. this is the highest paying job that they're qualified for
     
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    go back to the main forum
     
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    yeah it's easy money. some ivy leaguers will go out and strip. it has nothing to do with education or whatever. it's just that if - (huge "if") - if you don't see any harm in exhibitionism then there's no reason not to do it. you don't lose anything and you get incredible compensation.

    people who hold this viewpoint in the long term call themselves "sex workers". they just don't hold the same set of ethics as the rest of us, but they can be totally healthy. i mean it's not exactly a taxing job :hs:

    what's not good is when the girl accepts the social conditioning that the rest of us have, and thinks less of herself for it because she believes the dogma that exhibitionism is intrinsically immoral / demeaning. if a girl like that is into it then there's probably a huge underlying issue that needs to be addressed.
     
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    You dont think it is true? If men could make nearly as much money in porn as women more men looking for a quick buck would be in it.

    I didnt say all women are money grubbing whores, just a lot.
     
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    yeah that's totally fine as long as you avoid reproducing, i definitely see where you are coming from just don't have any kids.
     
  20. JordanClarkson

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    That is actually rare, and when it happens it's probably not going to be a career that they stick with. Most girls in the industry are not very bright. And most who say they attend college are flat out lying. It's all about playing out the fantasy. Everyone needs a story to tell. The most popular one is that "this is only part time until I finish college."
     
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    It can be a healthy viewpoint, but the job itself is going to be very demeaning and unhealthy. No matter how strong your mental makeup, being constantly looked at as a piece of meat strips away your sense of humanity. I don't have a better analogy, but those in the military may be fighting for a good cause...still, the job is quite brutal and can be so mentally damaging.
     
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    how is that nerdy :hsugh:
     
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    i didn't say it wasn't ture, it just came across as assholish.
     
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    not as rare as you think.I know several girls that danced during college, made shit tons of money, graduated, and moved on. One of my best friends from high school danced for 5 years while in college and now is married with kids and is establishing a career
     
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    I've known a few myself, but the idea that strip clubs are filled with college students is false. There are many who come and go, but like I said, they don't stick around. Those with educations are more likely to ues it in their field, not stick with stripping no matter how much money it makes. Though I had a friend who went back and forth. She made her money stripping, bought her own house, but had to go back because she was making $10/hr at a sub machine, despite having a degree, because it was such good money and she didn't want to pursue her educated field (psyche)
     
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