Girls: Which approach works for you?

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  1. bjonesy77

    bjonesy77 New Member

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    This is kind of in response to demosnat's thread about observing the attention she gets from guys in public.
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3659148

    I will use the same senerio as demosnat was in:
    Say you were sitting in a coffee shop, reading, writing, browsing the internet, or simply just enjoying a cup of coffee at your table alone.

    Guy 1: boldly walks over to your table, sits down, and tries to start a conversation

    Guy 2: He is obviously intimidated by you, but somehow musters the confidence to say hello and hopefully find an opening to sit down and strike a conversation with you.

    Guy 3: He is sitting across the room but catches your eye contact and holds it for a more than normal amount of time. Then he comes over to your table, asks if he may sit.

    Guy 4: (identical to demosnat's) You don't notice him, but on his way out he drops a note off that says something along the lines of "i have to run, but i'd like to see you again. 555-1234 is my number, give me a call sometime"




    Now here is the twist, what if you were sitting there with a friend? A female friend of course, because what guy is going to actively try and pick up a girl who is sitting with a guy already.
     
  2. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    1) why the fuck are you asking heterosexual WOMEN for advice on how to pickup women
    2) why the fuck are you asking heterosexual WOMEN for advice on how to pickup women
    3) why the fuck do you have limiting beliefs about picking up a girl who's hanging out with a guy? 90% of the time it's not her boyfriend.
    4) How is this even a question? Clearly she will go for the guy who doesn't even approach and instead sits in the corner staring at her longingly. /thread
     
  3. bjonesy77

    bjonesy77 New Member

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    Did someone shit in your cherrios this morning? damn

    Im asking which approach works for them and why?

    And if she is with a guy, I'm not about to just jump in hoping that it isnt her boyfriend. Maybe thats your thing, and if it is I wish you luck. But for me, that just sends the signal that she is not looking for someone to hit on her.

    Guy 3: He is sitting across the room but catches your eye contact and holds it for a more than normal amount of time. Then he comes over to your table, asks if he may sit.
    all senerios end up with an attempt at conversation
    I think its a legitimate question
     
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    I missed the part where there was another guy with her. Care to show me in his post where he said that?
     
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    Ever wonder why when we type out a fake number, we have a tendency to type "555" as the beginning 3 numbers?
     
  6. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    i'm sorry i didn't mean to come across rude. dude the answer is you go up to her, ask to shake her hand, then turn it clockwise so her hand is on top and then bro you are IN. 100% success rate with that shit
     
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    guy 3. at least if we do the eye contact thing i can express my interest or lack thereof. if he looks at me and i look away quickly, that means don't come over here lol.
     
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    Happy B'Day
     
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    what does it mean when you make eye contact with a girl and you both hold it, but neither of you smile?
     
  10. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    where's the :bullshitwackit: smiley. ARGH . see what you opened up man, asking girls for their opinion. ugh.

    like seriously, say you come across kiri and you dig her and you're a fucking MONEY cat but you look like rubbish that day for some reason so she doesn't hold eye contact. What, you don't approach because of that? RETARDED. Go buy magic bullets from the mystery method corp and don't leave your house until you read it (also stop posting on ot)
     
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    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    same advice
     
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    thanks :)
     
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    the only time i'd hold eye contact like that without either looking away or giving a polite smile is when i've totally zoned out :rofl: but that's just me... for some women it could mean something else
     
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    I've agreed with you like 3 times today.

    I think it's time I /myself.
     
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    if i avoid eye contact with people in that type of situation it's because i'm doing something and don't want to be bothered for whatever reason.

    oh and that mystery method crap works great... if you want to pick up completely vapid and brainless whores. if you want advice from an intelligent woman who can see that PUA garbage coming from a mile away, then ask me. otherwise i'll shut up.
     
  17. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    undeniable progression in your development
     
  18. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    thanks.
     
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    in all likelihood, my anxiety would cock block any stranger-stranger interaction.
     
  20. Viper

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    Are you an anxious person?
     
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    that was for the threadstarter. it's pretty clear what kind of women you're interested in.
     
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    Im asking......ware_ru seems to think those PUA books work. Im not saying they dont, but for the right personality type
     
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    I think you are lost from the main forum......
     
  24. Viper

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    They are good for getting a feel for how women think and react. They are also good for teaching you why you are failing with women. Using the canned lines and openers, however, isn't going to make you a player. I always tell people to read those books right up until they start talking about canned openers and then stop reading because the rest is a waste of time.

    Nothing is going to teach you what works or not more than experience itself. Make up your own openers and shit and field test it. :dunno:
     
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    VIPER STOP POSTING.

    There I said it for you ware. Save you some time.
     

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