Girls Vs. Women

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Metacomet, Sep 16, 2005.

  1. Metacomet

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    I've had my share of experience with girls but I'm still a virgin... (you can ask why but let's move on.)

    I'm 19 now and the option to aim for older females never crossed my mind... and I don't really know why. I can imagine I'd be much happier with someone in their early to mid twenties (25 is not old in my opinion) then putting up with the characteristics of your average teenage girl...

    Because let me get something straight. Most teenage girls are fucking annoying, and selfish, and stupid. The exceptions (I've dated a girl who wasn't average) seem to have problems which make them this way...

    I'm just wondering now if I should start thinking about going for well-adjusted full grown ladies... because the only thing that ever kept me going for girls was the fact that they were my age and they were fun, (and cute).

    Just wondering if anyone has some advice or experience on the matter of girls vs. women,

    thanks.
     
  2. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I am 22, and usually date in the 25-29 bracket (30 is a little too old for me, don't ask why)

    Older women are better kept but dont quite have the pencil bodies of teenagers. And IMO are much more fun to hang out with, they are better rounded, and have their priorities straight. Also they can carry a MUCH better conversation.

    But good luck trying to get a 25 year old to date a younger guy :)
     
  3. Metacomet

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    Ouch, really? :) I guess that makes sense, I don't have anything to offer yet as far as money goes. I imagine women need to see a home and a career first.

    The pencil bodies of the teenagers as you mentioned *sigh* it's so much more then that. Something about their naivety and fun-factor just kills me. They haven't had tits for more then 5 years, they go ga-ga for older mature guys, everything is new to them. Shit, most things are still new to me!
     
  4. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Yes but they are still quite lame to talk to. Lots of silence, and try getting into an intellectual debate with them. Then again talk about shopping and you are good to go. I dunno, I guess I am just deeper than that :)
     
  5. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    i wouldnt date a girl with a highschool mentality again if you paid me to
     
  6. Metacomet

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    :wtc: I know. Growing up sucks.
     
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    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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  8. lauren

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    go for the ones that are mature, regardless of age.


    edit: it is possible to date older girls. i am going on 23, and recently dated a 19yo (youngest age dif ive ever had...hes younger than my kid brother)

    but, keep in mind, he led me to belive he was 20 going on 21...not 19 going on 20. if you want maturityin your partner...you have to be mature yourself.
     
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    Took the words outta my mouth yet again miss :bowdown: :rofl:
     
  10. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    lol older chicks want sex.
     
  12. hayte997

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    Yeah good look finding older women.
     
  13. chica&buddies

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    :dunno: i "dated" a 20 year old, and i'm 23... tho i gave him shit about his age ALL the time ;), he was very mature. if he wasn't, i wouldn't have kept him around.

    it can go both ways... young and mature... old and immature. tho there is no direct correlation, most of the time age does play a factor. it's all about one's life experiences :)

    lately, tho, i've been into the 28+ :o
     
  14. rkf76

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    Age ain't nothing but a number

    Older females can be just as childish as younger one's, and younger females can be just as mature as older one's.

    So basically, don't focus so much on the age, focus on the person.
     
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    Older women, in my opinion, and from talking with my contemporaries, are much better at "making love" than just having "sex". Sex we can get anywhere (trust me on this), but finding someone who can "make love" and can connect with, based on our age and experience, is usually not found in younger men.

    Younger men in my experience, seem to think the be all to end all is just sticking it in.

    As people mature, they realize that there is a certain connection with making love, being sensual, taking one's time, having fun, compassion and passion, having intelligence, as well as being adult about it all. This type of individual is NOT a loser, this type of person IS outstanding.

    Of course there are still older people out there who just want to have a romp and wham-bam-thank-you..and it can leave one feeling rather empty. Those are the losers...they shall never grasp the absolute special connectedness two human beings can have and feel for one another. Truthfully, I feel sorry for them.

    I should think a person would want to be a "good lover" as opposed to just a body with the necessary sex equipment. IMO.

    Climbing off my soapbox...:)
     
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    depends on the type of relationship the individuals are involved in. I don't make love to women I don't love, follow me?
     
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    Of course there are still people out there who just want to have a romp and wham-bam-thank-you..and it can leave one feeling rather empty. Those are the losers...they shall never grasp the absolute special connectedness two human beings can have and feel for one another. Truthfully, I feel sorry for them.

    Sexual gratification is just that...fullfilling a primal, basic urge...I suppose one could very well equate it with using the toilet and flushing...and for some people that works for them...and that is all they want...perhaps it is all they know and, after all, one never misses what they have never had. :)

    Just my opinion...




     
  18. rkf76

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    I don't understand the contention that mature adults who engage in consentual sex without strings attached is tantamount to being a loser. Me, for example. I just got out of a 3yr relationship with a girl I very much loved, things just didn't work out. At this point, I don't have the desire to be in a serious relationship because honestly, im still trying to recover from the last. I very much love women and love the things we do together:naughty:, I simply don't want to have to answer to anyone about anything. I've done that for the last 10yrs of my life so I want to enjoy the freedom of the single life, even if it does suck at times.
     
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    Older women = experience = maturity = doesn't get any better!!!
     
  20. PuppyCat

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    I never mentioned anything about strings, not one iota.:)
     
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    Out of my whole response, that's the best comeback you could muster up? :rofl:
     
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    Perhaps that is all it deserved (if that).

    You are either missing the point, have misconstrued the premise or are obdurate.

    I was just zeroing in on the point about how much more satifying making love with a contempory amd making a connection with them is , altho said conntection is intagible and could very well be on the fringes of what is knows as "tantric sex: and can be wonderful as apposed to being with someone quite younger or a person who is out just for sexual gratification.
    There is such a HUGE difference...IMO :)
     
  23. rkf76

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    Perhaps you have nothing relevant to say, therefore, choosing to nitpick.....but you're a woman so that's to be expected.

    I understand the point, but that's not the issue, it seems you are the one that is being stubborn by not accepting the fact that individuals aren't going to "make love" everytime they engage in intercourse. The one's looking for a romp are losers to you for not grasping "absolute special connectedness two human beings can have and feel for one another." which is complete and utter bullshit. Being single, i'm looking for a romp. I can't make love to someone I don't love. And while I agree that there is a difference between making love and having sex, to call everyone who has sex a loser is just plain ignorance. And just the same, saying those people "can't miss what they never had" is too. I've been in two long term relationships for the last decade, been there, done that. That's not what I want right now.
     
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    I agree with Puppycat. I have been in relationships that were just about the wham-bam, I have also been in relationships where (it seemed) to be more than that. The wham-bam, leaves me unfulfilled and feeling like it was a waste of time/energy. In the instances where there was/is some deeper connection that feeling can last a long time, even days afterward.

    The way I look at is, if I need a physical release, then I have masterbation for that, if I have a need to sex with another person, then I am looking for a deeper connection, so if it is not there, then I am left with emptiness and frustration.

    BTW, I'm a dood, not all of us think with our dicks.
     

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