SRS girls that want to hook up vs. seeking a relationship

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  1. pantheR

    pantheR New Member

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    this girl is driving me mad and it's hard to read her. my interest these days has moved from one night stands to finding a suitable girl for a relationship.. not sure if she wants the same.

    from experiences, how do you guys tell?
     
  2. J_75

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    I don't think it's the girls you have to worry about so much, it's you.


    Are you still following the same patterns right now that you were following to find fuck-buddies?......bar-flies, psycho's, pill-poppers, etc.


    If you are (and if she fits the mold), then the answer is right in front of you.
     
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    pantheR New Member

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    no this is a co-worker that i've known for a few months but just recently began pursing. she digs me and vice-versa
     
  4. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I do this outdated crazy thing called "Ask"!

    When I was younger I fluffed about the issue and told myself if they wanted me they would make the move. If they were serious, they would make it obvious they were serious. As I got older I realised that playing all the mind games and doing what you're 'just meant to do' is a waste of time and energy.

    Tell her what you want and and ask her if she feels the same way you do. If you do and she rejects you, I guarantee the world will keep spinning and you won't spontaneously combust :)
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You could start by talking to her.

    OMG WHO WOULD EVER THINK OF DOING THAT!?!?!1 :eek3:

    I mean I know guys are excellent at reading women's minds and all :hsugh: but sometimes having actual conversations can be beneficial.
     
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    ask?
     
  7. Dabogy

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    Have you even gone out on a date with her?
     

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